Just rehomed 7 month old kitten ....5 year old existing cat not impressed !
Posted: Sun Jan 14, 2018 2:42 pm
Hi.
I know there are similar threads on here and this will be a variation of a recurring theme but i do need some guidance (reassurance)? We have a 5 year old tom who we rehomed 3 years ago as a companuon to our then 15 year old. Sadly we lost the elder cat in november aged 18 and after Christmas thought that if we were going to rehome we shld do it sooner rather than later before remaining cat got "used" to being alone. Our boy has always been really outgoing, loves his toys, always comes to let u know when he returns from a forray outside so u know he is back snd wants a snack lol
So on Friday we collected a 7 month old male kitten. He is used to being with other cats in his foster home, is a friendly wee thing and is very easy going. Having rehomed before i knew the drill about safe room, slow intros etc. On friday evening the new lad basically yelled the house down all night. In addition he dug up the carpet leaving enough space for both paws to get under the door. Our existing boy spent the night outside the door listening to this and watching 2 front legs waving thro the gap at bottom of door. Safe to say therefore scents were being exchanged !
In the morn against wot i would normally do i let the wee one explore the rest of the house and the boys had a f2f meeting. Stupid? Yes probably.
There was actually no drama. A few hisses from the older lad. The youngster just wants to play and follow his bro around. BUT our previously fun loving and extrovert wee cat seems to have retreated in on himself. He doesnt want to play, he doesnt look relaxed. Wen he goes out we are worried sick he wont come back as we have made him so unhappy. I am trying to give him as much attention as possible and we put the wee man back into his safe room a few hours a day and overnight .
I know it is VERY early days and this could all take weeks to settle down but i need to know if i have ruined the chances of them bonding as i rushed the initial intro so much. Today they have lain and slept about 2 feet apart for about 3 hours . Then the older boy went out and they had a bit of a scrap through the window wen he peered in. Would love to hear some advice or more importantly if anyone else has had similar experience of such a quick personality change. Will they settle ? Will our existing boy come back out of this shell he has retreated into ?
Thanks
I know there are similar threads on here and this will be a variation of a recurring theme but i do need some guidance (reassurance)? We have a 5 year old tom who we rehomed 3 years ago as a companuon to our then 15 year old. Sadly we lost the elder cat in november aged 18 and after Christmas thought that if we were going to rehome we shld do it sooner rather than later before remaining cat got "used" to being alone. Our boy has always been really outgoing, loves his toys, always comes to let u know when he returns from a forray outside so u know he is back snd wants a snack lol
So on Friday we collected a 7 month old male kitten. He is used to being with other cats in his foster home, is a friendly wee thing and is very easy going. Having rehomed before i knew the drill about safe room, slow intros etc. On friday evening the new lad basically yelled the house down all night. In addition he dug up the carpet leaving enough space for both paws to get under the door. Our existing boy spent the night outside the door listening to this and watching 2 front legs waving thro the gap at bottom of door. Safe to say therefore scents were being exchanged !
In the morn against wot i would normally do i let the wee one explore the rest of the house and the boys had a f2f meeting. Stupid? Yes probably.
There was actually no drama. A few hisses from the older lad. The youngster just wants to play and follow his bro around. BUT our previously fun loving and extrovert wee cat seems to have retreated in on himself. He doesnt want to play, he doesnt look relaxed. Wen he goes out we are worried sick he wont come back as we have made him so unhappy. I am trying to give him as much attention as possible and we put the wee man back into his safe room a few hours a day and overnight .
I know it is VERY early days and this could all take weeks to settle down but i need to know if i have ruined the chances of them bonding as i rushed the initial intro so much. Today they have lain and slept about 2 feet apart for about 3 hours . Then the older boy went out and they had a bit of a scrap through the window wen he peered in. Would love to hear some advice or more importantly if anyone else has had similar experience of such a quick personality change. Will they settle ? Will our existing boy come back out of this shell he has retreated into ?
Thanks