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I get what you’re saying. We are going out of town next week and I feel so gross about it. When I was caring for Juliet in the last days, it crossed my mind wondering how my friend would be able to handle her care while we were gone (I have a friend who would always stay with her when we left town, ...

I feel so numb. Like on day 6 I’ve seemed to snap out of it. I can eat now and am not crying all day. I can’t stop thinking about her but it’s like my brain stops me from reliving it over and over like I was. I don’t feel comfortable in my home. We are moving in 2 weeks and I’m glad for a new start....

Thank you so much for the wise words. Yes my son is 7 years old and autistic. He knows Juliet is in heaven and doesn’t fully grasp what death is yet, so he is unbothered besides seeing me cry so much..as seeing others cry upsets him. You are so right though. I need to get through this and get better...

My sweet Juliet. The guilt I feel is horrendous. I feel like I let her down. She was 19, 20, or 21 years old (she was estimated age 6-8 when she was passed to me by a loved one..originally a stray). She suffered with IBD for a long long time. She was nothing but bones. Couldn’t use steroids because ...