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by phil-63
Wed Nov 23, 2022 7:25 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: George
Replies: 4
Views: 2016

Re: George

I'm truly sorry your facing this it feels impossible to deal with. I lost my cat flash a month ago and i to live alone but never felt one bit alone when he was here.I felt sick and couldn't eat when i'd made the appointment to let him go. Flash started to distance himself a bit and it does hurt a li...
by phil-63
Wed Nov 16, 2022 12:03 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Let him go today
Replies: 1
Views: 1484

Re: Let him go today

I'm truly sorry it's just not fair there not with us long enough.It's very difficult to find the strength to let them go when it's easier to keep them another day or week but you've used all your love for him to stop the suffering he would face. At the moment i know how awful it is to cope with so h...
by phil-63
Mon Nov 14, 2022 7:23 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: When to let go?
Replies: 2
Views: 1640

Re: When to let go?

I had to let my cat Flash go 3 weeks ago to pancreatic cancer. I know exactly what you mean by he tries being himself. Flash amazingly was eating very well almost as normal but got to a stage he was looseing weight fast but because he was acting fairly normal made my decision so so hard.I knew in th...
by phil-63
Tue Oct 25, 2022 11:30 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Letting him go tommorrow
Replies: 9
Views: 3385

Re: Letting him go tommorrow

I've been doing little things today like shoveling leaves of garden but it still doesn't leave your mind. I'm at peace with my decision but was all the more difficult because he was eating so well which patients don't usually do with pancreatic cancer and i think this definetly gave me another month...
by phil-63
Mon Oct 24, 2022 3:48 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Letting him go tommorrow
Replies: 9
Views: 3385

Re: Letting him go tommorrow

Thankyou for your kind thoughts i have just let my beautiful boy go i feel sick in the pit of my stomach.I had him about 11 years and he was 5ish when i got him and i've loved every second of his company.i let him go at home and the young man that did it was compassionate and made it as easy as he c...
by phil-63
Sun Oct 23, 2022 6:13 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Letting him go tommorrow
Replies: 9
Views: 3385

Re: Letting him go tommorrow

Thanks i feel anxious and nervous at the moment the house will feel dead without him.
by phil-63
Sun Oct 23, 2022 9:01 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Letting him go tommorrow
Replies: 9
Views: 3385

Letting him go tommorrow

In august i posted how my cat was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.I'm updating to try get this off my chest and need to be doing something i guess. Flash my lovely cat picked up after his diagnosis and was eating really well although being sick every other day.his behaviour changed a little as he w...
by phil-63
Tue Aug 16, 2022 8:16 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Saying Goodbye
Replies: 3
Views: 1916

Re: Saying Goodbye

I think its the frustration that you cant do anything.It made me struggle to eat for a few days i just couldn't sit still. I hope they get back to you before the 24th and then you know for sure what it is and if there is any options.Flash has lost weight but hasnt vomited hardly these last 3 days an...
by phil-63
Mon Aug 15, 2022 7:48 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Saying Goodbye
Replies: 3
Views: 1916

Re: Saying Goodbye

I'm going through the same at the moment and i hope it is a mouth infection.I'll be praying and keeping my fingers crossed for you.
by phil-63
Sat Aug 13, 2022 12:14 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Making nightmare decision
Replies: 6
Views: 2016

Re: Making nightmare decision

I don't know if cats or humans go anywhere after they die i'd like to think so and i don't know how i'll feel about getting another cat.Idon't blame you getting another cat after tiggy died and as you were sure in your mind thats what you was going to do why wait there is no right or wrong.An older ...
by phil-63
Sat Aug 13, 2022 8:46 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Making nightmare decision
Replies: 6
Views: 2016

Re: Making nightmare decision

flash seems alot better than yesterday hes eaten most of his food and some treats.Yesterday he was irritable and not eating but today seemed like his normnal self really so one day at a time as they say.How do you feel about boo now do you find it a bit easier to cope.I've no idea how i will cope an...
by phil-63
Fri Aug 12, 2022 10:05 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Making nightmare decision
Replies: 6
Views: 2016

Re: Making nightmare decision

I live on my own and all that love and energy he brings will be gone. The calmness when they're snuggled up with you. During the day he pops in and out before he comes in at night to jump on the couch with me.Its hard to explain but when he pops ou during day i will do the little things like hooveri...
by phil-63
Fri Aug 12, 2022 9:02 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Making nightmare decision
Replies: 6
Views: 2016

Making nightmare decision

On monday flash my cat was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. He had been vomiting all week then i took him to vet and got dreaded news.I Declined treatment of surgery as he's 15 or 16 and i'm not putting him through it.Since monday although vomitting he's still eating until today (friday).He walked ...