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Hi Michelle, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know what you mean about the mornings feeling the worst. We had our lovely boy put down only a few weeks ago now and it does get easier with time; however I did have a good cry today when I went into the garden due to the lovely weather, because he...

Again.....thank you all so much. As I've said before, this forum and you lovely people are really helping. Sometimes I feel as if I sound like a stuck record! Lol! xx

:( I'm ok one minute and then the next.... I'm in bed and missing him jumping on the bed for cuddles. It's only been just over a week, but already i'm struggling to remember the last cuddle and the last memory of him being here so alive and present. I know it's just panic and I'm having a low moment...

Thank you Joanne

Does anyone know of a good website to order an urn?
I've been looking online, but most I've found seem a bit morbid and old fashioned and i'd like to find a nice modern urn.

Hi Jasmine, It will help I think once you have Chino back home. Our boy came home yesterday and just having his ashes in the house and no longer on his own at the vets or at the crematorium, is somewhat comforting. Bring your boy home and you if/when you have a wobble in doing so, remember....we're ...

Kay....JulieandBarney....thank you so much! This forum and you guys of course, are really helping.
I was looking for a hug or a kiss emoticon to send you both, but I can't seem to find one on here lol
xx

......because it' a lovely day out there and our boy loved the garden.
I can't bring myself to look out there
xx

Ah hon i know what you mean about certain times of the day that you have to get used to, with them no longer being there. Just very recently I also thought "This time last week....." remembering saying goodbye to our lovely boy. Since then there was that first feeding time without him (we ...

Thank you all so much! I am taking great comfort from this forum and from you lovely pet lovers, who can genuinely empathise
JulieandBarney, that poem is beautiful. Thank you xx

Ah thank you JulieandBarney. You're so kind. So sorry to hear about your loss.

How do you get passed the "i wish i'd spent even an extra 5 minutes with him before he went" ??

But at what point do you let go and stop beating yourself up? xx

Hi all, We've just recently had to have our gorgeous cat put down. He seemed fine apart from recently seeming a bit blue and off his food. It was a shock for us to think he was just under the weather to be told he was very ill and was subsequently put to sleep, all in just a matter of days. The feel...