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by Mainecoon
Sun Jul 23, 2017 6:55 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Overwhelmed with guilt
Replies: 9
Views: 4646

Re: Overwhelmed with guilt

Thinking of you & beloved Morty ( now at Rainbow Bridge ) x
by Mainecoon
Sun Jul 23, 2017 6:49 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beloved tuxedo cat
Replies: 6
Views: 3052

Re: Lost my beloved tuxedo cat

So sorry about your loss & we know how you must be feeling . We lost beloved Timothy ( a Tuxedo Cat .. who we had 12 years ) a while ago to Heart Cancer & there were no signs of how bad he was ( PTS at vets who let us see him before & after the event ) Thinking of you at this time & ...
by Mainecoon
Mon Dec 12, 2016 8:00 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost our girl
Replies: 18
Views: 9775

Re: Lost our girl

We know how you feel & are so very sorry ... We lost Kara our so very very special rescue Longhaired Mainecoon x at less than 6 years old ( just over a year ago ) to a thoughtless driver in our road . ( We also are convinced we have seen her a few times recently ) It will get better over time , ...
by Mainecoon
Tue Nov 29, 2016 7:45 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: My new additions
Replies: 6
Views: 3300

Re: My new additions

Like us we got rescue Elsa following the so very sad RTA death of our Beautiful Kara ( Mainecoon x ) The other now cats eventually now seem happier & like to play with her . Only sad thing is that dear Pip ( our much loved 18 year old dog has now passed away in the last 3 weeks ) so we have 3 ca...
by Mainecoon
Thu Oct 06, 2016 6:59 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Issues surrounding losing a cat.
Replies: 18
Views: 7842

Re: Issues surrounding losing a cat.

Yes I know how you feel as we posted about the same time about a year ago about our very sad RTA losses . Like you in your road , beloved Mainecoon Kara was killed right opposite our house in a perceived quiet road by an inconsiderant driver . Every day we see where she was killed & it is just s...
by Mainecoon
Sun Jul 10, 2016 7:03 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 13020

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Thinking of you at this time . We have 2 oldies ..18 year old Rhea cat & 18 year old Pippin dog , & had beloved Peter Cat PTS at 19 years old . Please dont feel guilty at all as a Human Nurse I see lots of very sad cases & we at least can hopefully as animal lovers ( where possible ) ens...
by Mainecoon
Tue Mar 29, 2016 6:46 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Does it get any easier?
Replies: 24
Views: 7809

Re: Does it get any easier?

So sorry about your loss . We lost our beautiful long haired Mainecoon x Kara to a RTA on 2/9/2015 , she is so so very missed .Now we have shorthaired Elsa , a Siamese X acquired Dec 2015 & very badly in need of treatment as frozen in garden / dehydrated & hours from death . A hard choice .b...
by Mainecoon
Wed Feb 10, 2016 7:59 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: NEW CAT FOLLOWING BEREAVEMENT
Replies: 1
Views: 1829

NEW CAT FOLLOWING BEREAVEMENT

As in previous posts , we lost our so very much loved Mainecoon x Kara in September due to a RTA. The house did not feel right & younger cat Tavy was so sad... So in December we acquired a rescue 6 month old kitten Elsa ( a stray found close to death in freezing conditions ) from a local rescue ...
by Mainecoon
Wed Feb 10, 2016 7:40 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Grieving once more
Replies: 6
Views: 2656

Re: Grieving once more

Thinking of you at this time X X
by Mainecoon
Fri Feb 05, 2016 8:09 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Preparing for the worst
Replies: 26
Views: 8952

Re: Preparing for the worst

RIP beautiful Bob .We lost our 1st cat a tabby & white Keri to Squamous Cell Carcinoma in 1998 & know how you are feeling . She like Bob did not want for anything either & was so much loved . Thinking of you at this time . xx
by Mainecoon
Wed Feb 03, 2016 7:32 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Miss him so much
Replies: 13
Views: 6219

Re: Miss him so much

Can understand how you feel as lost Mainecoon Kara 5/12 ago in different circumstances , she was not even 6 years old . Have pictures of her dotted around house which help . Thinking of you at this time XX
by Mainecoon
Wed Feb 03, 2016 7:26 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Very Sudden Passing
Replies: 5
Views: 2616

Re: Very Sudden Passing

So sorry about your loss . He was obviously SO LOVED & wanted for nothing .. Thinking of you at this time . X
by Mainecoon
Sun Jan 10, 2016 7:58 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: New cat following bereavement
Replies: 1
Views: 1484

New cat following bereavement

We were devastated when our beautiful 6 ish year old Mainecoon Kara died to a careless inconsiderate driver in a perceived quiet road . Other 2 cats have been a little subdued ( understanding) After a lot of soul searching ..... 4 months on we have just got Elsa .. a B/W 6 month old S/H rescue stray...
by Mainecoon
Mon Jan 04, 2016 8:02 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Sudden death age 5 :(
Replies: 8
Views: 4192

Re: Sudden death age 5 :(

So sorry about Dora ( Recently bereaved also ...Kara was just under 6 years old , but different circumstances ) People who say just only a a cat are so misguided !! Think of all the positive things you had together. Thinking of you at this time & we well know how you must be feeling . XX
by Mainecoon
Sat Dec 05, 2015 7:58 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost Friendships
Replies: 11
Views: 4781

Re: Lost Friendships

Thinking of you at this time . XX
by Mainecoon
Wed Dec 02, 2015 1:11 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Some very, very sad news....
Replies: 11
Views: 4393

Re: Some very, very sad news....

So sorry about Lily . A lot of us have been through this recently & it is awful . Thinking of you all at this time .XX
by Mainecoon
Sat Nov 07, 2015 7:45 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Issues surrounding losing a cat.
Replies: 18
Views: 7842

Re: Issues surrounding losing a cat.

We see everyday where Kara was killed .. right outside our house . As mentioned previously after 2 months without dear Kara ... we now let the cats out at 1st cat alarm call (!) normally around 4 am ish ! Tavy was always very timid when Kara was around & is now doing what she did ie sleeping on ...
by Mainecoon
Mon Nov 02, 2015 7:57 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: 9 months on
Replies: 2
Views: 2237

Re: 9 months on

We agree .... We still miss Kara so very very much , she was so loved & so very special to us ( she was found on a roundabout in a cardboard box in freezing conditions .. she & mother survived , other 2 siblings did not ) They say time is a great healer & we are at last thinking of the p...
by Mainecoon
Sat Oct 31, 2015 12:26 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Our Boy
Replies: 13
Views: 4953

Re: Our Boy

So sorry to hear of your loss . We lost our lovely Mainecoon Kara on 2/9/2015 to a RTA & can really feel what you are going through / feeling at this time . Thinking of you. RIP Leo XX
by Mainecoon
Tue Oct 20, 2015 4:25 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Alice
Replies: 11
Views: 5941

Re: Alice

RIP Beautiful Alice . Thinking of you at tis time xx
by Mainecoon
Tue Oct 20, 2015 7:07 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Greebo (aka Fred) ... wherever the spirits of loving cats go
Replies: 11
Views: 4699

Re: Greebo (aka Fred) ... wherever the spirits of loving cat

So sorry of your loss . He was obviously so much loved & wanted for nothing in the short time you had him. He looks so sleek & peaceful at the end . RIP Greebo .. Thinking of you at this time xx
by Mainecoon
Fri Oct 02, 2015 8:56 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Struggling with grief
Replies: 13
Views: 5517

Re: Struggling with grief

So sorry to hear of your very sad losses .. we are recently bereaved also . Think of all the good times you all had together Thinking of you at this time . x
by Mainecoon
Thu Oct 01, 2015 6:45 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Struggling with grief
Replies: 13
Views: 5517

Re: Struggling with grief

Thinking of you at this time xx
by Mainecoon
Sun Sep 27, 2015 12:26 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Another RTA loss.
Replies: 15
Views: 6354

Re: Another RTA loss.

So gorgeous .. RIP Lucy xx
by Mainecoon
Sat Sep 26, 2015 6:44 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Feeling broken
Replies: 6
Views: 3460

Re: Feeling broken

So sorry of your loss . Without turning it around .. we lost Timothy @ 13 years old ) 4 years ago due to a Heart Tumour . Like you they operated & we were informed whilst under he was anaesthetic & the deed was done .. peacefully . It such a sad loss & thinking of you . ( See previous po...
by Mainecoon
Fri Sep 25, 2015 6:59 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Another RTA loss.
Replies: 15
Views: 6354

Re: Another RTA loss.

We supposedly live in a quiet road .. yet a Persian cat further up was killed last year . A friend who lives on a quiet country lane nearby lost 3 cats & ditto another friend lost 1 cat ( you just do not know ) . Our cats who survived lived near a busy back road .. It is a lot to take in /what t...
by Mainecoon
Fri Sep 25, 2015 3:14 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost without you Miss Coco
Replies: 12
Views: 5639

Re: Lost without you Miss Coco

So sorry to hear about your terrible loss of Miss Coco . We lost our beautiful Mainecoon Kara to a RTA just over 3 weeks ago , so really understand your feelings at this time . I myself think if only ... . However I think of all the love & pleasure she had & gave , plus the fact she did not ...
by Mainecoon
Wed Sep 23, 2015 7:12 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Another RTA loss.
Replies: 15
Views: 6354

Re: Another RTA loss.

We have had 3 cats in RTA in past few years . Tried secure garden as far as we could .. Keri (disclocated hip & survived ) this was in dark about 6 am . Tara died died instantly about 2am in cul - de sac- ( hit & run & died) . Beautiful Kara died 3 weeks ago in broad daylight 10-11 am &a...
by Mainecoon
Wed Sep 23, 2015 7:49 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Another RTA loss.
Replies: 15
Views: 6354

Re: Another RTA loss.

So very sorry for you to lose young Lucy & we can so understand your loss / feelings as it as it is 3 weeks to the day since we lost Kara . Think of all the positive happy times you had with her & perhaps she is playing with large fluffy Kara at Rainbow Bridge . Thinking of you at this diffi...
by Mainecoon
Sat Sep 12, 2015 6:04 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: cat RTA accident
Replies: 4
Views: 2974

Re: cat RTA accident

. We have had 2 previous cats involved in RTA accidents ( sorry I am medical !! ) & 1 survived but 1 i did not . This was some years ago now . Kara was so special to us & this was a terrible shock . . ....Slowly coming to terms now.... Thanks for your kind messages x