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by Tina
Wed Jul 13, 2016 7:47 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Pics of the monster Christmas 2016
Asleep stopping me gaming
Catnip birthday fun look at the eyed like flying saucers. :lol:
Sings David Bowie line hello spaceman...its confusing their days. :?
by Tina
Wed Jul 13, 2016 7:42 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Shaz I understand I have a blanket Christmas fleece I had my last hug with her on and I wont. Clean it. Its pretty clean anyhow just feel its like security blanket. She would insist I snuggled on sofa with fleece over me it was comfy for her age. Vets I went back to for closure needed answers it'd h...
by Tina
Sat Jul 09, 2016 11:17 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

yes a new cat can be a plaster but it can also be a blessing in disguise. I bet hed soon say I like it its cute you cant help it personality shines through. maybe one day. I find ageing difficult im in 30s now and I want to keep reaching for face creams and thinking should I wear this at my age? its...
by Tina
Wed Jul 06, 2016 12:14 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

shazxx50 issiandarchie crewella mayday cats face looks like its stuck in a piece bread Kriss33 ive heard at the vets of cats living to 22-24 ;-) BobbysGirl- true can chose what pet I haveyet the last one chose me she ran round the room in circles then ran at me like a rocket, I carried her hom in my...
by Tina
Tue Jul 05, 2016 3:04 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

thank you I have contacted local cats protection about volunteering at events. I cant make it to some but, I am at least on the insurance list so I can help. I miss my cat so much I just cant handle the fact her little paws and mew isnt greeting me when I wake infact I dread going to bed and waking ...
by Tina
Sat Jun 25, 2016 1:39 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Thank you all, I wont retaliate but its so hard to ignore it when people are so petty around you its silly it makes them have a bad day and yourself so, I dont understand why anyone would want to do that it sure dont make sense, yet im not them so I dont know how their minds work. My cat well I am m...
by Tina
Fri Jun 17, 2016 8:08 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

thanks im dealing with other things raining on me right now, loud deaf 98 year old neighbour wo hates everyone and shouts at everyone..( nobody likes her!) she was always yelling at my cat to not be in the communal garden incase she ruined her poppies, which two days before my cat passed, she hissed...
by Tina
Thu Jun 16, 2016 4:28 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

today has been a strange one since mondays loss, its gone by too fast but too slow too, feels like yesterday. I did the worst thing I could do turn off alarm and oops I overslept I was awake all night then...I slept till 3pm how ever will I sleep tonight. Now I am zombie mode dont want to move about...
by Tina
Thu Jun 16, 2016 4:16 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: My cat seems a bit lost without Tezzy.....
Replies: 5
Views: 2058

Re: My cat seems a bit lost without Tezzy.....

when my mum passed away my cat was completely lost she'd sit mew at door if anyone came in search for her and wail, it was heart breaking I think this contributed to my cats eventual passing. My neighbours cat has been mewing for my cat, he is a big maine coon and my cat was a little afraid of him b...
by Tina
Wed Jun 15, 2016 11:09 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Crewella shaz Bobby girl, thank you for the replies, yes I feel like she was an Angel my mother said she would be her eyes and ears watching me. I feel ive lost her again along with Mookie. The guilt is still there I'm 50.50 on it still it'll take time and I'm glad I found this place canyon sleep ri...
by Tina
Wed Jun 15, 2016 5:51 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9082

How to Handle the loss please?

I had to have my beloved pet Mookie aged 20 put to sleep on monday and I feel so guilty I cant stop crying. People may say to me its justa cat but 20 years and my only companion its been really hard and I dont want to wake in the morning or do normal things. I am of course forcing myself to do these...