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by Matt1981
Thu Aug 02, 2018 11:10 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Cat missing for 6 weeks tomorrow
Replies: 3
Views: 295

Cat missing for 6 weeks tomorrow

Not really sure what to do. One of my cats Oreo went missing six weeks ago tomorrow and its like she's dropped off the face of the earth. I have joined various lost cat websites and posted on many Facebook groups as well as notifying my vet and neighbours. She was a very homely cat before and very r...
by Matt1981
Fri Jan 05, 2018 2:31 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

Pics are too big to post for some reason. They are both almost 15 months now and are so well behaved and well tempered.
by Matt1981
Tue Dec 12, 2017 4:01 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

Can’t thank everyone on here enough for all the support after my loss of my beloved Smudge 13 months ago. My two new cats Marmite and Oreo are over a year old and their unique little personalities are coming out. Marmite the make the dominant one whilst Oreo the shy affectionate one. Adopting new ca...
by Matt1981
Sat Feb 25, 2017 2:41 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

To all I would like to thank you all for your fantastic support after I sufferered the pain of losing my beloved Smudge. It's three months now and even though I have Marmite and Oreo now Smudge will never be forgotten he was a one in a million cat. I don't think I would have coped as well as I did w...
by Matt1981
Sat Feb 25, 2017 1:35 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Non recognition aggression problem between two siblings.
Replies: 2
Views: 780

Non recognition aggression problem between two siblings.

Hi all Just wanted some advice on this subject if anyone has encountered it before. About four months ago I adopted two kittens from the same litter male and female. From day one they were the best of friends playing together/sharing food bowls even cuddling up and sleeping together. The male called...
by Matt1981
Tue Dec 06, 2016 12:42 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beloved cat this afternoon
Replies: 5
Views: 2388

Re: Lost my beloved cat this afternoon

I know exactly how you feel. About three and a half weeks ago I lost my beautiful one year old Cat Smudge to the road. He was the sweetest boy and was cruel the way he was taken. Just the day before he slept on my lap after I had fed him Dreamies for his birthday. I didn't witness it found out when ...
by Matt1981
Tue Nov 29, 2016 4:50 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: My new additions
Replies: 6
Views: 2563

Re: My new additions

They are both unique charectors already. The boy is really outgoing and Loving where as the girl doesn't take too kind to being picked up. Isn't so much scared of humans as she will come out and play while we are in their room. Just doesn't like being picked up. Both have bags of energy and can see ...
by Matt1981
Mon Nov 28, 2016 1:31 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: My new additions
Replies: 6
Views: 2563

My new additions

Look what found me this weekend :) Someone who works for my mum had three Kittens to sell. I could only have two but they are absolutely adorable. In no way are they a replacement for Smudge but they will go a long way to helping repair my broken heart.

Marmite and Oreo
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by Matt1981
Sat Nov 26, 2016 2:12 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beautiful best friend
Replies: 8
Views: 3973

Re: Lost my beautiful best friend

I'm sorry to hear about Lola. There's nothing I can do or say to make it better. I lost my beautiful one year old Smudge to the road two weeks ago today. I've cried myself to sleep nearly every night since. Time will heal the wounds i'm sure but at the moment i'm struggling as well. Nothing quite pr...
by Matt1981
Wed Nov 23, 2016 5:10 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

The entire litter
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by Matt1981
Wed Nov 23, 2016 1:08 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

His first night home when we got him.

Stayed in between there for about an hour.

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by Matt1981
Mon Nov 21, 2016 5:29 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Here's a couple of photos of my Beautiful boy.

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by Matt1981
Fri Nov 18, 2016 5:19 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

Its funny you should say that because I was thinking of doing something similar. Creating a slideshow tribute to Smudges life. Would certainly be something to remember him by. Not that i'll ever forget. Thanks to everyone for their support its been a great help. I have spent the last few days away v...
by Matt1981
Fri Nov 18, 2016 3:34 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Re: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

Thanks to both of you for your replies, means a lot. I do agree that you can't keep them indoors forever as that's just cruel. They are natural Predators and instinct is to hunt. It was the first cat Id owned and I so desperately tried to do everything right. :( Ive since heard that 1.5 - 2 years is...
by Matt1981
Thu Nov 17, 2016 5:29 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic
Replies: 29
Views: 8994

Heartbroken lost my first cat to traffic

Hi all New to this forum needed to find somewhere to post how I feel. Last Friday I came home from work around 9pm to find out my beloved Moggie Smudge had been hit by a car and killed. It was only one day after his first birthday. He was such a sweet and loving cat we adopted him from a litter my b...