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by VickyJ
Tue Dec 12, 2017 4:18 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: my cat hasnt come home, devastated
Replies: 17
Views: 1983

Re: my cat hasnt come home, devastated

Hi Sharon.

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you.

I’m guessing you haven’t had any news? There is always hope.

Hugs to you.

Vicky xx
by VickyJ
Fri Nov 24, 2017 10:38 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: my cat hasnt come home, devastated
Replies: 17
Views: 1983

Re: my cat hasnt come home, devastated

Hi, I’m really sorry to hear about your beautiful cat Jasper. Please don’t give up hope though. I’ve heard so many stories of cats that disappear for weeks and suddenly appear as if nothing has happened. I know it’s so hard though just not knowing. My cat who I had many years ago disappeared for jus...
by VickyJ
Fri Nov 24, 2017 10:28 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Grieving with guilt and I can't take it. Please help.
Replies: 5
Views: 1629

Re: Grieving with guilt and I can't take it. Please help.

Thank you Mayday21 for thinking of me.

It’s been just over 5 weeks now, I miss him constantly and have good and bad days, which I guess is to be expected.

Thanks again xx
by VickyJ
Tue Nov 14, 2017 1:19 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I can’t get over the unfairness
Replies: 7
Views: 1287

Re: I can’t get over the unfairness

Hi Tatirivs I just read your post about poor Phoenix, I’m so sorry this has happened. I know it’s so difficult at the moment. The first few days were just unbearable for me and I’m sure they will be for you too, so right now you need to start being kind to yourself. This wasn’t your fault, you’d bee...
by VickyJ
Mon Oct 23, 2017 5:59 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I can’t get over the unfairness
Replies: 7
Views: 1287

Re: I can’t get over the unfairness

Thank you all so much for your replies, they are a great support and comfort to me. I’ve re-read them a few times. I guess I’ve just been looking for answers and for someone to magically make me feel better. I do love him so much, my boy Raisin. I guess as time is going on I am accepting it a little...
by VickyJ
Sun Oct 22, 2017 8:57 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I can’t get over the unfairness
Replies: 7
Views: 1287

I can’t get over the unfairness

Ok, so I’m at my lowest point I think today. I can almost deal with the fact of missing my Raisin and getting use to life without him, but I’m getting myself in such a state about the unfairness of him dying so young at only 4. This is harming me and leaving me stuck in this pit of despair. I’m havi...
by VickyJ
Fri Oct 20, 2017 2:51 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I don’t know what to do please help
Replies: 11
Views: 1522

Re: I don’t know what to do please help

Thank you Ruth for your kind words and for sharing your story with me. I can understand what you are saying about grieving for your Father before he passed. My Father-in-law also died of cancer in July this year and my husband also did a lot of his grieving before. People always say that a sudden de...
by VickyJ
Fri Oct 20, 2017 10:18 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I don’t know what to do please help
Replies: 11
Views: 1522

Re: I don’t know what to do please help

Thank you so much Vivian and Bobbys girl. Thank you so much for looking up that plant name. I’m going to look for it today. I’m still struggling so much. Not sleeping and crying through the night. I’ve only lost animals to old age and I’m find it hard to comprehend and I’m not moving forward like I ...
by VickyJ
Thu Oct 19, 2017 11:57 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I don’t know what to do please help
Replies: 11
Views: 1522

Re: I don’t know what to do please help

Thank you so much for your replies. It really does mean so much. Raisin’s sister is helping me a lot. She seems to be sticking with me and currently asleep on the sofa next to me. We both miss him so much. This morning was terrible. When it’s feeding time it’s even more obvious that he’s not here. W...
by VickyJ
Thu Oct 19, 2017 7:00 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I don’t know what to do please help
Replies: 11
Views: 1522

Re: I don’t know what to do please help

Thank you both so much for your kind words, they actually really help. I’m still in shock and I can only take it minute by minute at the moment. I’m crying so much and I feel for my kids as I’m not being a good mum right now. I can barely function. Raisin was around me all the time, even walked with...
by VickyJ
Wed Oct 18, 2017 8:55 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I don’t know what to do please help
Replies: 11
Views: 1522

I don’t know what to do please help

I found my cat, my special cat Raisin dead this morning. I’m in total shock and devastated. I have (had) 6 cats, he was my special one, followed me everywhere and with me all the time. There were no signs of illness, he was only 5, last night he was eating and playing with his sister, just totally f...