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- Wed Dec 23, 2020 7:53 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: My Gorgeous is gone
- Replies: 13
- Views: 2006
Re: My Gorgeous is gone
Hi so sorry for your loss ,sometimes ,we never fully understand ,the reason why things happen ,but naturally ,we always need answers ,sadly we may never ever know ,why , All I know and understand ,it that losing a cat ,is heartbreaking ,especially if that cat , Wasn’t very old , whatever was wrong w...
- Mon Dec 07, 2020 8:38 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: No one understands
- Replies: 4
- Views: 903
Re: No one understands
Hi I totally understand what you’re saying and Feeling , you see I lost my Bertie just over 3years ago , And often I feel the pain and sorrow is just the same . I thought time was a great healer . Yes things do improve You manage each day as it comes , and get through it the best way you can , becau...
- Thu Aug 20, 2020 9:02 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Did we make the right decision.
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1344
Re: Did we make the right decision.
Hi first of all sorry about your loss ,I think it’s human nature,too second guess ourselves, After we have made the decision ,too let our furry friend go ,after I had Bertie ,p t s , I couldn’t get the thought out of my head ,had I made the right decision ,should I have , Fought a little longer ? ,(...
- Tue Aug 18, 2020 7:58 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: No one else gets it
- Replies: 3
- Views: 921
Re: No one else gets it
Hi yes I do get it ,after I lost my Bertie ,in November 2017 ,I discovered ,that understanding And sympathy ,Thin on the ground b,Xmas 2017 was hell ,I had a total meltdown right in Front of the people I thought knew and cared ,I am talking about my family and friends , I was accused of spoiling Xma...
- Fri May 08, 2020 11:31 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Help me overcome a loss
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1229
Re: Help me overcome a loss
Hi just read your strory I am so sorry to hear about your loss ,sadly accidents happen , I lost my darling Bertie ,almost 3 years ago ,due too a freak accident ,if you don’t know , I will tell you ,he got trapped as I was closing the washing machine door ,it damaged His spine and bladder ,we tried a...
- Mon Jan 27, 2020 11:12 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Will I ever let go . ?
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1732
Will I ever let go . ?
Hi friends ,for those of you that knows ,I lost my dear Bertie ,just over two years ago , And it still seems ,I am feeling the pain of his loss ,I think about him 24/ 7 ,and wish so Bad he was still here ,I watched a video of him today ,usually I don’t have any issues With looking at pictures of him...
- Mon Jan 27, 2020 10:37 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: my cat died today, it was my fault
- Replies: 35
- Views: 16076
Re: my cat died today, it was my fault
Hi sadly I have heard far too often ,people blaming themselves ,for the loss of their Beloved cat , the truth is however we lost our beloved cat ,it isn’t in our ‘hands the fate Of our pets ,I suppose human nature ,makes us think that way ,but sadly some things Are totally out ,of our control, trust...
- Sun Dec 08, 2019 4:26 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: my cat died today, it was my fault
- Replies: 35
- Views: 16076
Re: my cat died today, it was my fault
Hi sorry for your loss , I have read your story And trust me , it wasn’t your flaunt , often We live a busy life , where everything goes Wrong , a chain of events , that sadly ended Badly sadly we cannot see the future , if We could , we would be fair warded But often we do blame ourselves for Somet...
- Sun Dec 01, 2019 5:23 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: My Baby Buddy
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2278
Re: My Baby Buddy
Hi first of all sorry for your loss , it’s hard enough Losing a beloved cat , let alone not finding out Why ? . I have learned through my own loss There is more questions than answers , all these Thoughts and feelings , can make you feel crazy Grief is cruel and heartless , and in life we May never ...
- Thu Nov 21, 2019 10:36 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: I am starting to feel depressed again
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1539
Re: I am starting to feel depressed again
Thank you all so much ,for your kind words and support ,I am blessed to have Bertie’s Litter mate ,Basil ,too help me pick up the pieces ,but I feel in my heart ,I cannot ever Love another cat again ( except basil of course ) I am a crazy cat lady ,in my forties , Who has cats in the family ,since I...
- Fri Nov 15, 2019 1:16 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Not letting go is destroying me
- Replies: 1
- Views: 766
Not letting go is destroying me
Hi guys as I am sure you know I lost my cat Bertie ,almost two years ago ,and it’s been a hell Of a rollercoaster ride , I am no stranger too ,cat loss ,Bertie was one of many ,but his loss Has been the worst I have ever felt ,a grief so dark and painful ,it’s putting me off ever Getting any more ,c...
- Fri Nov 15, 2019 12:51 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Time to say goodbye
- Replies: 37
- Views: 13332
Re: Time to say goodbye
Hi I am so sorry ,too hear your post ,putting a beloved cat too sleep ,is a heartbreaking Choice you have to make ,but if it’s for the best ,sadly that’s the only option as for putting My Bertie too sleep ,at first ,I thought I had made a huge mistake ,but no almost two years on It was the right cho...
- Fri Nov 15, 2019 12:38 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: I am starting to feel depressed again
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1539
Re: I am starting to feel depressed again
Thank you so much x
- Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:48 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: I am starting to feel depressed again
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1539
I am starting to feel depressed again
Hi all ,I have been posting on this website for a while now ,so I am sure your all familiar With my Bertie’s story ,. ? On November the 25 th will be Bertie’s 2nd anniversary ,it’s Been my toughest loss too date ,Bertie was only 7 years old ,and was my whole world , It’s been a rollercoaster of emot...
- Tue Nov 05, 2019 10:23 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: My Baby Buddy
- Replies: 5
- Views: 2278
Re: My Baby Buddy
Hi I am sending my heartfelt sympathy and support ,losing a cat is devastating ,and anyone Who has lost a beloved cat ,understands your pain ,I have heard of cats going away too die , I myself have had cats not return home ,sadly no one ever knows why ? .your neighbour Seems a caring person I do hop...
- Sun Sep 29, 2019 7:07 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Cat Death (FLUTD) - my fault?
- Replies: 7
- Views: 3975
Re: Cat Death (FLUTD) - my fault?
Hi first of all sorry about your loss ,and secondly you shouldn’t blame yourself or feel Guilty ,about what happened ,somethings are sadly out of our control ,my Bertie had Too be PTS ,after a freak accident ,that damaged his bladder and tail ,he was only 7 years Old ,I like yourself ,blamed myself ...
- Tue Sep 03, 2019 11:16 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: How do you support a grieving pet?
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1869
Re: How do you support a grieving pet?
Hi sorry to hear about your loss ,I lost my cat Bertie back in November 2017 ,his loss Not only hit me hard ,but Bertie’s brother ( Basil ) too ,Basil was very clingy always Whated too be near me at all times ,and often seemed stressed at times ,the best thing I d Advice you too do is ,make a fuss o...
- Tue Sep 03, 2019 11:04 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: He's gone
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2747
Re: He's gone
So sorry for your loss ,yes I do believe ,that you dream about your cats ,and the dream
Is real I get a lot of comfort from them. X
Is real I get a lot of comfort from them. X
- Tue Sep 03, 2019 11:01 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: My gorgeous little cat was run over last week
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2205
Re: My gorgeous little cat was run over last week
Hi Tina yes you are right ,people are so cruel and evil ,most pets on the street can be avoided, by traffic ,it makes you wonder ,would they run over a child ? That short answer Is no ,sadly some people don’t see animals as living breathing creatures with feelings and A heartbeat, but I do ,when I l...
- Sun Aug 18, 2019 12:13 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: My gorgeous little cat was run over last week
- Replies: 8
- Views: 2205
Re: My gorgeous little cat was run over last week
Hi Tina I ,sorry too hear about your loss ,yes I agree your neighbour was cruel and in the wrong, too treat your cat ,like a piece of rubbish ,it’s stressful enough losing a cat ,without That ,but trust me when I say ,there are many cruel people in this world , but also many Good people also ,like p...
- Sat Aug 17, 2019 11:58 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Still isn’t getting any easier
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1511
Re: Still isn’t getting any easier
Hi polly thanks for your support ,and sorry too hear about your loss ,Bertie was only 7 years old,when I had to make that heartbreaking ( but right ) decision too put him too sleep , You see Bertie had a accident ,that did damage to his spine ,tail and bladder ,he was Blocked in the bladder ,the vet...
- Sun Jul 28, 2019 5:36 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: I just cannot seem to accept my loss
- Replies: 12
- Views: 2383
Re: I just cannot seem to accept my loss
Hi everyone thanks for your support , and my thoughts go out to Donna ,yes losing a cat Is very heartbreaking , and yes it’s important to find someone , who understands ,and Will ,support you through your ,loss , and there is tons of online support ,and information So yes we are not alone ,in this j...
- Mon Jul 15, 2019 9:29 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2747
Re: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
Thank you all so much for your support and kind words I know you are all feeling the emotions and raw pain Of your own loss , and I am pleased there is so many Kind and understanding people , in the world , not Just cruel and mean people , who. Obviously should Know better then say horrible things ....
- Mon Jul 15, 2019 12:48 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: I just cannot seem to accept my loss
- Replies: 12
- Views: 2383
I just cannot seem to accept my loss
Hi everyone,I know you’re hurting too ,but I feel , I am heading for a nervous breakdown , No one seems to realise how much my darling Bertie , ment too me ,he was my sunshine My whole world my everything ,everyone ,keeps telling me and expecting me move on , Saying things like let him go ,get on wi...
- Fri Jul 05, 2019 11:09 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Saying goodbye
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1887
Re: Saying goodbye
Hi first of all sorry for your loss , cats become
Part of the family , and are involved in our everyday
Lives , so it’s no wonder why we miss them so much
I do hope the many happy memories will bring you
Some comfort
Hugs and kisses x
Part of the family , and are involved in our everyday
Lives , so it’s no wonder why we miss them so much
I do hope the many happy memories will bring you
Some comfort
Hugs and kisses x
- Fri May 31, 2019 2:20 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2747
Re: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
Hi thanks jules , for kind words and support ,I haven’t been on this website for a while Because ,I have been seeing a cardiologist ,because I have angina ,caused by the stress Of losing my dear Bertie ,yes that’s what has become of this ,what I call a living nightmare Losing Bertie ,has damaged my ...
- Sat May 11, 2019 2:59 am
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2747
Re: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
Thank you both for your kind words and support ,yes I agree anger and bitterness ,isn’t a good thing ,but I feel grief is something you have no control over ,as for moving on ,it’s Easier said than done ,I am sure because ,of the love you have for your cats ,you understand The way I feel ,as I under...
- Sun May 05, 2019 11:24 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
- Replies: 9
- Views: 2747
Why is life so cruel and unfair ?
Hi sorry to sound like a broken record ,but I am still feeling the pain of losing my dear Bertie It’s been over a year ,and still I am living with my grief ,I just what a as normal as possible Life , but I feel in limbo because ,of my feelings of anger and bitterness ,towards my Loss ,Bertie was tak...
- Sun May 05, 2019 11:12 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Losing Lucy
- Replies: 3
- Views: 1036
Re: Losing Lucy
Hi so sorry about Lucy ,it did sound like ,she was sick ,and I think digging her a resting place Was lovely ,did she have a favourite spot in the garden ? ,I admire you for taking on a feral cat,because they are so misunderstood,and unloved by many ,I had a feral cat many years ago ,you give them th...
- Thu Apr 25, 2019 11:23 pm
- Forum: Bereavement Support
- Topic: Still isn’t getting any easier
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1511
Re: Still isn’t getting any easier
Thanks you both for your kind words and support ,experience. Grief is like a nightmare you Cart seem ,too wake up from ,and it’s hard for some people to understand ,the love and Bond we shared ,with our cats ,still those people don’t matter ,and yes I have never thought Of ,it as crawling through it...