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by Mayday21
Sat Jan 09, 2016 9:12 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: such grief and guilt help!!
Replies: 9
Views: 2209

Re: such grief and guilt help!!

Hello Missey it's such a compassionate choice you made for your 18 year old Missey. And yes I inderstand about missing someone you loved & cared for for so long. I often say to people "Mayday lived with me longer than some kids live at home!" I miss her like nothing on this earth. You loved & still ...
by Mayday21
Sat Jan 09, 2016 8:35 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Suggestions gratefully received re getting urine sample ....
Replies: 23
Views: 4814

Re: Suggestions gratefully received re getting urine sample ....

Hi Jan congrats on urine sample & post the results. Hope Blackie gets a clean bill of health. Vivian
by Mayday21
Fri Jan 08, 2016 9:14 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Brittle bone disease
Replies: 2
Views: 4815

Brittle bone disease

Hi a Little Paws carer has a kitten who jumped & fell, hurt itself & couldn't walk. Taken to vet & X-rays showed no breaks.The vet suggested pts but Deb, president, said no. She text me today kitten still can't walk & hoping it will get stronger a apparently has brittle bone disease. Any one have an...
by Mayday21
Wed Jan 06, 2016 8:19 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Just had to share this!
Replies: 5
Views: 991

Re: Just had to share this!

Hi Sue your God daughter's smile sums it up. :D Vivian

PS this is my first day back at work! Trying to be grateful I've a job to go to. Had great day at Little Paws yesterday - managed to get 3 months of filing done for Deb.
by Mayday21
Wed Jan 06, 2016 6:21 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Cat skin ailment - help needed!
Replies: 3
Views: 902

Re: Cat skin ailment - help needed!

Hi Catfella if Kiki has a skin ailment it may be a worthwhile for a vet to take a skin scraping & examine under a microscope for what's causing the irritation. Is she an outside cat it may be something in the garden or a food allergy. People may have other ideas. Vivian
by Mayday21
Tue Jan 05, 2016 7:10 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: The BOSS..... Aygo,Nysa died.
Replies: 4
Views: 985

Re: The BOSS..... Aygo,Nysa died.

How sad. Thinking of you. hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Jan 04, 2016 10:32 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3280

Re: Posting pics & location

Thanks Mary I didn't scroll down far enough. All done. Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Jan 04, 2016 10:11 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3280

Re: Posting pics & location

Hi how do you post your location. In my user control panel in the time zone Australia/Brisbane there but location is not posted?
by Mayday21
Mon Jan 04, 2016 9:34 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 23395

Re: Milla had her kittens

Hi Joe I volunteer for a vet every fortnight on a Sat. I've done this since Nov 2007. Reza is from Iran & his wife Taiwanese. As for the staff 2 female vets one is American, the other Japanese, one of the vet nurses is from Macedonia & another is married to a Swiss & returned to Ausralia after livin...
by Mayday21
Mon Jan 04, 2016 9:16 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Hi I am new =^_^=
Replies: 15
Views: 2360

Re: Hi I am new =^_^=

Hi Kate & Galyna welcome. Nice to read everyone's posts. My Mayday left me in November. I've another girl Elsa who I was asked to foster thru Little Paws Kitten Rescue in 2011. She had either been lost or abandoned in the floods we had that year & was very depressed. She's about 10 maybe 11 at a str...
by Mayday21
Mon Jan 04, 2016 8:52 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day
Replies: 24
Views: 5670

Re: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day

Hi Anna thinking of you & can relate to what you're feeling. Mayday like your gorgeous Blinky was my child & I too don't like my job. I go back on Thu. People are going to expect me to have come to terms with her loss - when one lives on their own it's difficult to put on that brave face. Are you ok...
by Mayday21
Sun Jan 03, 2016 10:52 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I feel so guilty
Replies: 9
Views: 2105

Re: I feel so guilty

Didi he's very handsome. I too took final photos of my darling girl curled up on the lounge beside me. Be prepared for waves of absolute grief & cry as much as you like - don't repress your feelings. You will be well & truely supported here as you deal with emotions. Take care. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Jan 03, 2016 8:51 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I feel so guilty
Replies: 9
Views: 2105

Re: I feel so guilty

Hello Didi my heart goes out to you. Everyone's support here is exactly what I'd say. The loss you feel is excruciating painful which only emphasises how much you & all of us love our fur babies. They're family. Thinking of you & hugs & as I think Crewella posted to Anna on Blinky's loss she's sure ...
by Mayday21
Sun Jan 03, 2016 5:58 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Shy
Replies: 11
Views: 3352

Re: Shy

Hi Shy I think Crewella's summed up the situation very well. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Jan 02, 2016 10:01 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: 1 year on!
Replies: 2
Views: 1088

Re: 1 year on!

Hi Joanne always paw prints in your heart. Thinking of you on your first anniversary. Hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Jan 02, 2016 8:54 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Hana wa Saku - Flowers will bloom
Replies: 4
Views: 964

Re: Hana wa Saku-DREAM

Morning folks I didn't want to start a new topic & thought this post somewhat relevant. Last night was the first time I dreamt of my darling Mayday since she left me 22/11. Mum & dad were also in my dream. I dreamt she was playing hide & seek with me & I was could see her & was calling her. It was a...
by Mayday21
Sat Jan 02, 2016 10:54 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 23395

Re: Milla had her kittens

Absolutely gorgeous! And love the stories that you post re: Mila's interaction with Kayla. You should be so proud of yourself for what you & Mila have achieved. Hugs to you Mila & her beautiful offspring. Reminds me of when I bought my darling Mayday home after fishing her out of the water. Vivisn
by Mayday21
Fri Jan 01, 2016 7:52 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Happy New Year everyone
Replies: 7
Views: 1407

Re: Happy New Year everyone

I've never seen that clip. I'd like my place to be 'the house of fun'. Thanks for posting Lilith & Ria what a fabulous way to wake to the 1st day of 2016. Hugs to all Vivian.
by Mayday21
Fri Jan 01, 2016 7:42 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Hana wa Saku - Flowers will bloom
Replies: 4
Views: 964

Re: Hana wa Saku - Flowers will bloom

What a lovely song. I was going to watch a YouTube the other day - the Dalai Lama talking with tsumani survivors. Take care everyone & hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 31, 2015 10:42 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 5731

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

Hi I concur with Lilith & Wanda to all our special fur babes past & present & to everyone who provides love & care all the best for 2016. Hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 11:14 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Cat seems constipated
Replies: 37
Views: 5086

Re: Cat seems constipated

Great she's home. They settle better @ home. And post updates. Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 11:10 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 5731

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

Yes Sue I'm going for dinner.'I don't think it will be an all nighters & probably won't see NY in. Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 9:51 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: 'Death Row' foster cats
Replies: 24
Views: 2448

Re: 'Death Row' foster cats

Helen that's great news & right on NYE. Hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 9:46 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 23395

Re: Milla had her kittens

Lilith yes but sweet 'tortitude' my Mayday was the sweetest little girl. Hope 2016 is kind to you & yours. Hugs Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 9:43 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 5731

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

Hi Sue yes understand about the waves of sadness... Memories. My friend who I went camping with commented that they could see I was still a bit raw. Haven't posted this but I volunteer for a vet every 2nd Sat - been doing this since 11/07. I was over at the clinic Tue to keep busy. He called me yest...
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 8:33 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 5731

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

Hi Sue I just googled heuchera plant pic - look lovely. And with the name 'Tommy' meant to be. How are you feeling? No doubt still fragile. ((Hugs)) Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 6:14 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 23395

Re: Milla had her kittens

Aaah Torties full of personality! But I'm biased here. I read on my sister's public Facebook that my mum's cat gave up in early May. Tim Tam was a seal point Birman who was originally with my sister but was being bullied by a Manx so mum & dad took her aged 5 or 6. She was 16 or 17 this year. When m...
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 30, 2015 4:51 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 5731

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

Sue very regal! Gorgeous. Hugs. Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Dec 28, 2015 8:27 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: please help
Replies: 20
Views: 2905

Re: please help

Hi Francis don't know but...if she's over grooming & breaking her skin resulting in a sore/infection could it be an anxiety issue? And I know it's costly but could you get a vet to do a house visit to save her stressing? I'm sure someone will post something to help/relieve your worries. And as to ha...
by Mayday21
Mon Dec 28, 2015 6:31 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day
Replies: 24
Views: 5670

Re: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day

Hello Anna I've been awake since 1am trying to drop off without any luck. Regarding connections, a work colleague is a Buddhist & they, as you know, believe in reincarnation. She's been a great help with her outlook on my Mayday's passing. So much that I've been to a free meditation class at a Buddh...