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by Mayday21
Mon Dec 28, 2015 6:31 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day
Replies: 24
Views: 5967

Re: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day

Hello Anna I've been awake since 1am trying to drop off without any luck. Regarding connections, a work colleague is a Buddhist & they, as you know, believe in reincarnation. She's been a great help with her outlook on my Mayday's passing. So much that I've been to a free meditation class at a Buddh...
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 27, 2015 11:40 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day
Replies: 24
Views: 5967

Re: Lost my beautiful angel Binky Christmas Day

Hi Anna I feel for you & know, as others too know the pain you are going through. Take comfort in that you did everything possible for your darling Blinky. What a beautiful pic you've posted. Remember she chose you as she knew in her heart she'd be a loved & cherished family member - and she was & i...
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 27, 2015 9:18 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 6043

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

I find lighting a candle at night & sitting watching it flicker helps & I'm not so 'down' when I go to bed. Hugs to all!
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 27, 2015 7:56 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....
Replies: 61
Views: 6535

Re: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....

I always let Mayday go wherever she liked as i always said "It's her house too & she probably treats it better than some humans would!" Good that Lucy is settling down in more ways than one. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 27, 2015 7:47 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.
Replies: 33
Views: 6043

Re: RIP Thomas, Prince among cats.

I'm so sorry about Thomas & I'm having a few tears - for Thomas, Dora, The Cat & Mayday. I still have waves of grief. Life is so fragile & our furry babes give us so much . My thoughts are with you. I'm still lighting a candle every night. Hugs to you & yours. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 27, 2015 5:09 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 24736

Re: Milla had her kittens

That's gear news. I too don't have great sight! Can't see clearly 6ft! Have worn specs since I was 6! The eye specialist explained to me "my pupils aren't soccer balls - rugby balls & laser not a good idea! Dealt a bad deal in the gene pool there!" But appear to have scored the best gene pool for ki...
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 26, 2015 4:19 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: HAPPY CHRISTMAS!
Replies: 8
Views: 1899

Re: HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

HimBarry thanks for your post. I really missed my Mayday this Xmas. First one in 21 yrs I didn't get up & wish the first love in my life "merry Xmas Darling Girl I love you so much!" And she'd purr & purr. It was tough. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 26, 2015 4:09 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Sudden death age 5 :(
Replies: 8
Views: 3212

Re: Sudden death age 5 :(

Hi Vixxey I'm home from my Xmas Day & night camping trip - no service. As Wanda said no 'such thing as Just a cat'. Once you have a special fur body enter your life you treasure them. I hope you had an ok Xmas - no use playing with words at a time like this. My friend wanted to stay tonight & thankf...
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 8:29 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....
Replies: 61
Views: 6535

Re: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....

Congrats Desley & right on Xmas. Keep us posted please on Lucy. Vivian
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 8:21 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: HAPPY CHRISTMAS!
Replies: 8
Views: 1899

Re: HAPPY CHRISTMAS!

Hi Sue cute drawing and Merry Xmas to all of you from me. Vivian
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 8:12 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Sudden death age 5 :(
Replies: 8
Views: 3212

Re: Sudden death age 5 :(

Hello I'm so sorry for you & feel your heartache. Alas they can't talk & are very good at hiding their unwellness. Thinking of you. And yes it is Xmas but please don't suppress your feelings cry as much as you like as I'm sure your family will understand. They too are feeling the loss. Others will i...
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 5:57 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....
Replies: 61
Views: 6535

Re: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....

Hi Desley I'm sure that kitty from a domestic violence situation would treasure a loving home. I recruit for child protection officers & pets are often the last thought of in such situations. And unfortunately they can't tell us the trauma they've experienced - only their interactions give us a glim...
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 4:54 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 24736

Re: Milla had her kittens

Crewella Daz's eyebrows gorgeous. Vivian
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 24, 2015 4:53 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: such grief and guilt help!!
Replies: 9
Views: 2402

Re: such grief and guilt help!!

Hi Missey Wanda, Kay & Crewella have words which express everything. Hopefully Their words & thoughts will provide you some comfort as they did for me. Thinking of you. Post whatever you're feeling. People here are so non-judgemental only comforting & supporting. Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 23, 2015 9:23 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: 'Death Row' foster cats
Replies: 24
Views: 2628

Re: 'Death Row' foster cats

Hi Helen I'll say a little prayer that they go to this family especially in the light that one of their fur babies was 23! Hope you & yours (human & kitties) have a safe & merry Xmas. This goes for everyone. Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 23, 2015 9:02 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Milla had her kittens
Replies: 192
Views: 24736

Re: Milla had her kittens

Hi Joe thanks for the pics especially on my Xmas Eve. They're gorgeous. Hope you'll be able to post one with Milla with her babies. Wishing you & yours a safe & merry Xmas. Vivian
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 23, 2015 8:55 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: such grief and guilt help!!
Replies: 9
Views: 2402

Re: such grief and guilt help!!

My heart goes out to you. Take what comfort you can knowing that you will be given all the support & understanding from the feline lovers on this site. Do you have family for Xmas? I hope so. I don't but a family friend & I are going camping Xmas day & Boxing Day which I'm grateful for. Thinking of ...
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 23, 2015 4:41 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....
Replies: 61
Views: 6535

Re: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....

Hi Desley re: your neighbour its you who's looking for a companion not your neighbour. My advice is to go by your own inner voice which is always right on the mark. Good luck. Keep us posted. Vivian
by Mayday21
Tue Dec 22, 2015 5:48 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Hello
Replies: 6
Views: 1384

Re: Hello

I'm a really new member not quite a month and I live in Australia but something drew me to this site. I've really appreciated the support fellow cat lovers have given me. Welcome. And a nice time to join & meet new like minded folks. Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Dec 21, 2015 7:53 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Preparing for the worst
Replies: 26
Views: 6527

Re: Preparing for the worst

I'm thinking of you all. How long will you be away for and is it possible to take Bob with you if it doesn't stress him? Just an idea & I really don't know how feasible it is. Keep us updated. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 19, 2015 9:16 pm
Forum: Rescue & Rehoming - General
Topic: 2016 Little Paws a Kitten Rescue Qld Australia
Replies: 6
Views: 1773

Re: 2016 Little Paws a Kitten Rescue Qld Australia

Hi Mark depends where your Aunt Jackie lives on the Gold Coast. To Broadbeach (say the middle of the GC) about a 40 min drive via M1 from where Deb & I live which is halfway from Goldie to Brisbane city. Please let her know about Little Paws Kitten Rescue and if she can help you can let me know. The...
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 19, 2015 9:03 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3431

Re: Posting pics

Hi Mary I used one of the links Yogi posted, resized it & downloaded Mayday's pic to my Picture folder & uploaded it from the folder. A couple of the others I tried mentioned something about forums accepting images from 'remote sites'. Perhaps that's the problem with Flicker. I'm no IT person just a...
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 19, 2015 7:27 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3431

Re: Posting pics

Hi folks pls see mypost on rescue & rehoming. I thought that was the most appropriate place. Topic is Little Paws Kitten Rescue Qld Australia! A result of my visit to Deb today CATASTIC in the words of Crewella. Vivian.
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 19, 2015 4:05 am
Forum: Rescue & Rehoming - General
Topic: 2016 Little Paws a Kitten Rescue Qld Australia
Replies: 6
Views: 1773

2016 Little Paws a Kitten Rescue Qld Australia

My visit to Deb @ LPCR has resulted in me helping her in 2016. I'm starting. 4-day week as of 6/1/16 & the following Wed I'll be going to her place to do paperwork associated with kitties adopted - microchips & vacs which she said would be a great help to her. Also Deb told me I'm welcome there any ...
by Mayday21
Fri Dec 18, 2015 11:19 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3431

Re: Posting pics

Oops don't know what happened. But when I went into my profile for the second time the image had resized ... technology so all looks good now. Thanks Sue, Mary & Yogi for all the posts and help. It's just after 9am over here and I need to get some stuff done. I've been doing this since 8am!! Vivian ...
by Mayday21
Fri Dec 18, 2015 11:13 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Posting pics
Replies: 26
Views: 3431

Re: Posting pics

Managed to get one up with much angst using various programs....this one is really small. When I have time I'll play some more and edit this one. At least something's up. This one was taken in April this year. My Irish friend commented "Ah the Queen has her crown!". Vivian
by Mayday21
Fri Dec 18, 2015 8:48 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....
Replies: 61
Views: 6535

Re: Thoughts on missing cats at Christmas ....

Hi Mary Rocky & Bridie certainly look at home. And yes they probably can't believe they have so much space up, down & around. While they are going to have a fabulous Xmas I'm sure you will too with these fur babes. I'm off to visit Deb at Little Paws Kitten Rescue this morning. Deb has around 20 cat...
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 17, 2015 9:52 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Dreading Xmas
Replies: 7
Views: 2018

Re: Dreading Xmas

Hi Sue Our movie theatre too is loud mainly with the adverts though. I'm at work but will log onto my mail now to read your msg. Vivian
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 17, 2015 8:25 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Dreading Xmas
Replies: 7
Views: 2018

Re: Dreading Xmas

Hi Sue I've just read my post in reply to your kind words & my reply sounded a bit off hand. What I meant was in thanking you for your thoughts & consideration was I'd love to hear from you when you had some time. I'm just about to leave to catch the bus for work. And Crewella thanks for your words ...
by Mayday21
Thu Dec 17, 2015 10:05 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Dreading Xmas
Replies: 7
Views: 2018

Re: Dreading Xmas

Sue appreciate your post & consideration. It's just after 8pm here & im in bed as I'm feeling awful. The tears just won't stop. Vivian