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by shazxx50
Wed Jun 15, 2016 7:35 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: How to Handle the loss please?
Replies: 36
Views: 9121

Re: How to Handle the loss please?

Hi Tina, so sorry for your loss, my little girl died suddenly on the 4th june, i got her ashes back today and i buried her in her favourite place, the hurt im feeling like you is horrible, having a cat for 20yrs shows that you cared and you should be proud that you had your cat that long, you did wh...
by shazxx50
Wed Jun 15, 2016 7:22 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

My little princess is resting under the bush she used to hide in ( she would try and get the birds), i wrapped her little box in her blanket and buried her with a single red rose.... RIP my beautiful girl, mummy loves you and will alway remember your funny little ways, wait for me at the bridge xxx
by shazxx50
Wed Jun 15, 2016 12:46 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

bobbys girl wrote:We buried our old lad Tommy next to his friend Rosie dog. Rosie has a very old breed of rose 'Rosa Mundi' to mark her grave and Tommy has a Heuchera called 'Thomas'. Both are just coming into flower and are looking beautiful. They make me smile.

They both sound lovely resting places xx
by shazxx50
Wed Jun 15, 2016 6:47 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

Well today is the day, ill get the call from the vets to say my girls ashes can be collected, with a heavy heart ive decided to bury her ashes in my garden in a area she used to sit in, i know it will be hard knowing that she didnt like the outdoors but i read the above poem and the words are true.....
by shazxx50
Sun Jun 12, 2016 4:21 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

I don't think that's morbid at all Wanda, the closeness to your beloved pet's ashes comforts you and who knows how any of us will feel another day? I once watched a programme in which a young woman had the ashes of all her deceased pets over the years, sewn into little pillows, which she kept on th...
by shazxx50
Sat Jun 11, 2016 3:26 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

Thank you both, i think i will bury her ashes, when? That i dont know, received her memorial stone today, i cant bring myself to open it thou, ive also brought a special solar light to put on her resting place, its a week today she passed and im still leaving and coming home with a empty heart, im t...
by shazxx50
Fri Jun 10, 2016 3:14 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

I was so sorry to hear that Miley passed, and I know it's really raw and painful right now, but please try to remember that you did your best for her in difficult circumstances. There's nothing more you could have done to help her and I'm quite sure she knew how much you loved her. It will take tim...
by shazxx50
Wed Jun 08, 2016 4:58 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

I wish i could post her photo, but for some daft reason i cant, she was half maine coon, black with a tiny bit of white a big girl and a right moody mare at times, she came to you not the other way round lol she defo ruled this household..... its lovely here today and we are trying out the new gas b...
by shazxx50
Tue Jun 07, 2016 9:25 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

Hi Shaz, I read your post with a pain in my heart for you. I had exactly the same reaction to the 'empty places' when my wee black cat Armand, died unexpectedly on a routine visit to the vets and exactly a month later, our beautiful silver and white tabby, Cody died from renal failure. The pain is ...
by shazxx50
Tue Jun 07, 2016 11:07 am
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

Jamsie22 wrote:I am sure a great comfort for your cat that you were with her at end. The pain and emptiness is terrible, but all you can do is think of good memories and it will gradually ease.
Thoughts with you
Jamsie22
Thank you x
by shazxx50
Tue Jun 07, 2016 8:14 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Yes i wouldnt of known, it was very quick and i believe she didnt suffer, and we were with her all the time, i will bring her ashes home and she will rest in her usual place, so flipping hard thou, in time i will open my house and heart to another fur baby, when i feel ready...... so ill say bye for...
by shazxx50
Mon Jun 06, 2016 8:37 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Thank you, believe it or not it wasnt the bowel problem that she passed from, vet think she had a blood clot, she was doing so well with medication to control her bowels, very well infact vet was only phoning to check on her toilet routine. It was such a shock and so quick, i think had it been bowel...
by shazxx50
Mon Jun 06, 2016 4:58 pm
Forum: HOMES OFFERED
Topic: Looking for a house cat (east london)
Replies: 4
Views: 3390

Re: Looking for a house cat (east london)

Hi, check the catchat home page, you can put in your area and see which homing centres are nearby
good luck finding your new forever friend
sharon
by shazxx50
Mon Jun 06, 2016 4:55 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

Re: The hurt is unbearable

Hi sue, it was so quick but this pain is unbearable, every where i go, i picture her there, im a emotional wreck
xxxx
by shazxx50
Mon Jun 06, 2016 1:59 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: The hurt is unbearable
Replies: 48
Views: 13681

The hurt is unbearable

My beautiful girl, grew her wings on Saturday, she was being treated for mega colon, which was well under control with medication since april, on Saturday she was at my bedroom door as usual waiting for me to feed her, breakfast eaten then she went out in garden, she was a housecat and only sat outs...
by shazxx50
Mon Jun 06, 2016 12:54 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

My beautiful girl grew her angel wings on Saturday, fly high my princess Miley
RIP 04/08/2008 / 04/06/2016
im heartbroken and miss her terribly xx
by shazxx50
Sun May 22, 2016 7:00 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Pet insurance
Replies: 12
Views: 6564

Re: Pet insurance

Hi, i use tesco, at the moment i have a on going claim, i paid my excess and tesco pay my vet direct, only filled in one form, up to now ive had no problems and claim is in excess of 1500.
sharon
by shazxx50
Fri May 20, 2016 12:35 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Hi mark, miley was a good girl whilst i was away, 4 poos in two day, but she has now gone back to not going daily, she went tue but nothing since, so i think ill be taking her back to the vets, i brought the miralax awaiting it to arrive but as from america not due till 30 may/ 2nd June... i did thi...
by shazxx50
Fri May 13, 2016 6:41 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Hi mark, i think movicol has some ingredient in it that cats cant have, but ill look into it, she has had a another poo so thats yesterday and today!!!! Im so pleased as she is no longer on dry food i brought some purina classic soup, its mainly fluid with bits of fish in she drinks that so at least...
by shazxx50
Thu May 12, 2016 4:05 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Hi Mark,, Miley is slowly getting there, in my job i deal with a pharmacist and they are going to look into for me but thanks for the offer, if not ill get it from ebay, still got the lactose to use until it arrives so ill carry on with that, she is opening bowels every couple of days, vet has said ...
by shazxx50
Wed May 11, 2016 5:00 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Spoke to my vet today, still doesnt want miley back on dry foods yet, i asked about miralax and that ok to give, does anyone know if i can get it from the uk, can find it on ebay but from the usa, i really dont want to wait 3wks, anyone know?
by shazxx50
Tue May 10, 2016 10:41 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Hi, i have taken his advice about asking about fibre responce so will do that tomorrow on next visit to vets Miley doesnt seem in any discomfort now, she was in the begining poor thing, broke my heart watching her struggle to poo, but hopefully she is on thd right path now, fingers crossed x
by shazxx50
Tue May 10, 2016 8:55 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Oh my vet can ger cisapride, that is the next step , then op to remove colon..... which i hope doesnt happen, but if it sorts the problem and thats the only way then ill try anything to get her health better
by shazxx50
Tue May 10, 2016 8:51 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

Re: mega colon advice

Hi Mark, thank for replying, yes i have heard of fibre response food, when i suggested it to my vet she said she wants Miley to have runny poos first so to keep her on wet food ( she was always on james beloved dry food before), as when she was younger wet food made her vomit, she is also a housecat...
by shazxx50
Tue May 10, 2016 7:24 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: mega colon advice
Replies: 16
Views: 4284

mega colon advice

Hi, im new to this forum, my 7yr old little girl Miley has got megacolon, she has had endless enemas twice been under to have faeces removed and vet finally operated last wed as they wasnt sure if she had a tumour, thankfully she didnt, but they found megacolon, so since then she has had antibotic a...