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by Mayday21
Sun Jan 06, 2019 10:32 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Having to have your cat PTS
Replies: 15
Views: 3825

Re: Having to have your cat PTS

Hello Oddcat so much sad news. Feeling for you, Bobby’s Girl & June. I volunteer for a vet at weekends & one of the vet nurses whom I’m very fond of said to me on me telling her how sad I was about lovely Freddie “He’s at the bridge with Mayday, Elsa & Penny”. Now we can add Cupcake &...
by Mayday21
Thu Jan 03, 2019 10:28 pm
Forum: LOST Cats
Topic: Freddie is missing.
Replies: 17
Views: 2925

Re: Freddie is missing.

Have had tears over this. So devastating. ((((Hugs)))) Sue. I’m still hoping for a miracle. You & Dave are in my & my friends’ thoughts & prayers. Vivian
by Mayday21
Tue Jan 01, 2019 9:48 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Snap crackle and pop
Replies: 10
Views: 1641

Re: Snap crackle and pop

Hi Folks yes Lilith we’re in Qld but the cyclone up North. We have organised fireworks eg Sydney Harbour Bridge, we have barges on the Brisbane River. Some rebels manage to get their hands on a few loose ‘bangers’. Alas I couldn’t get into NY as upset about Freddie. Last night watched the “Military ...
by Mayday21
Tue Jan 01, 2019 9:32 pm
Forum: LOST Cats
Topic: Freddie is missing.
Replies: 17
Views: 2925

Re: Freddie is missing.

I’ve been praying as have friends of mine over here that Freddie’s strayed into a garage & locked up for the NY. Such a horrible feeling. Let’s combine all the +ve power for Freddie’s return. Poor boy had a torrid time in 18. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Dec 30, 2018 12:25 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Having to have your cat PTS
Replies: 15
Views: 3825

Re: Having to have your cat PTS

Hi June my heart goes out to you on losing Spike. Wow 23 yrs that’s fantastic hold onto that. Rest assured he’ll always be with you. Why would he leave after being loved for all that time. Pls be kind to yourself as you grieve & post whatever & whenever as people here empathise & underst...
by Mayday21
Fri Dec 28, 2018 7:47 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Is my cat beautiful?
Replies: 7
Views: 1313

Re: Is my cat beautiful?

Your Shini has similar coloured eyes to my Pebbles .. an oriental-x. Not blue or green, turquoise like. A Japanese vet told me that Asians with blood type B result in similar coloured eyes. Think she’s beautiful. Good luck. Vivian & the Famous Five from Oz.
by Mayday21
Fri Dec 28, 2018 7:38 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Coco and Chanel dilemma
Replies: 340
Views: 673700

Re: Coco and Chanel dilemma

Hi Desley hope you, Coco & Chanel had a great Xmas. They certainly look very contented girls on that mat. Fusses to the beautiful girls, Vivian & the Famous Five from Oz.
by Mayday21
Wed Dec 19, 2018 10:24 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: I miss her so much it hurts
Replies: 10
Views: 1630

Re: I miss her so much it hurts

Hi pls accept my sincere sympathies on Megz’s passing. We all empathise with you. Rest assured you’ll receive all the support when & if needed here as you work your way through your grief & loss. I discovered this site 3yrs ago on losing my Mayday, my avatar. How I found this forum I’ve no i...
by Mayday21
Tue Dec 18, 2018 1:46 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Is my siamese really a siamese?
Replies: 10
Views: 1904

Re: Is my siamese really a siamese?

Hi Tanner re posting pics see Yogi’s suggestions for resizing & posting. My Pebbles has Oriental in her which we think Siamese but she’s black & white with aqua green eyes. A Japanese vet told me that Asians with blood group B often have these coloured eyes. Genetics do strange things. And y...
by Mayday21
Mon Dec 17, 2018 10:25 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy I’m sure Lilith would agree that Paul’s around you as I do too. I often dream of Mayday & while waking feeling her loss, say to myself while she’s no longer with me physically she’s with me spiritually. You & Paul shared a special bond obvious with the time he chose to spend with you...
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 15, 2018 9:51 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Vet Costs, Why do Vets Charge so Much
Replies: 10
Views: 1490

Re: Vet Costs, Why do Vets Charge so Much

Hi Ruth although published in the UK I’ve posted to my FB as I think it was an interesting article & as I volunteer for a vet agree with the analysis. Thanks for sharing. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Dec 15, 2018 9:28 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy like Lilith I’ve been wondering about Paul & while not posting, I’ve been monitoring posts. So sad to read about Paul. And I agree with Kay’s comment about not depriving yourself of a feline family member. I’d be lost without the ”The Famous Five from Oz”. Yes Pebbles is still with me &a...
by Mayday21
Fri Nov 16, 2018 10:14 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: Moomoo RIP.
Replies: 4
Views: 1063

Re: Moomoo RIP.

Hi please accept my sympathies on the passing of your lovely Moomoo. My Mayday was a Tortie (shevwasnt a naughty Tortie) & they certainly leave paw prints on your heart. It will take time to work through your feelings of loss please don’t rush the process. If you need support please don’t hesita...
by Mayday21
Thu Nov 15, 2018 10:39 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Sad update SCC/my baby is gone - Dilemma - 20yr old cat with dental problems
Replies: 23
Views: 4465

Re: Sad update SCC/my baby is gone - Dilemma - 20yr old cat with dental problems

Hi Jules my heart goes out to you on Merlin. We all go through the guilts, second guessing if we did the right thing, if only. Merlin was truely loved for 20 yrs & I’m sure you wouldn’t have wanted him to suffer. You’ll get lots of support here. Forgive me if I lost something in your post but ar...
by Mayday21
Tue Nov 06, 2018 8:48 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Odd noise when eating, breathing and purring.
Replies: 29
Views: 21338

Re: Odd noise when eating, breathing and purring.

Hi Ruth Paws xd that Tiggy’s on the mend now that the issues been diagnosed. Ahh the antics of pill giving to cats. I’ve been sneezing too . me thinks sinus issues too. Keep us posted. Fusses to Tiggy. Btw I can’t have a shower without Harper jumping up on the screen & TC sitting on the loo scra...
by Mayday21
Mon Nov 05, 2018 9:53 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy lucky you with cooling weather. It’s dam hot here & it’s only November!! The Famous Five from Oz have been stretched out on tiles grateful of ceiling fans I’ve just put in. And Lilith I love a real cold ale on a hot day!! Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Nov 05, 2018 9:36 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Coco and Chanel dilemma
Replies: 340
Views: 673700

Re: Coco and Chanel dilemma

Ahh that pic says it all as Ruth’s words do too!! They look so contented & they’re certainly beauties. Fusses to them Vivian
by Mayday21
Mon Nov 05, 2018 9:32 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - a new chapter begins
Replies: 223
Views: 22555

Re: Mia - a new chapter begins

Hi Dave Mia’s twitching tail seems to indicate she’s happy! Perhaps the retreating is a way of playing. Pebbles sometimes does the twitching tail when she sees me. Good news Hendrix’s ops happening this week. Keep us posted. Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Nov 04, 2018 10:25 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy glad you were proactive with enquiring about Paul. Strangevthe owner hasn’t contacted you. And I’ve done hasty things when I’ve had a couple of vinos. Hoping there’s news of Paul soon. Perhaps he’s hiding somewhere. So worrying when you don’t know what’s happened. Keep us posted btw The Famo...
by Mayday21
Sun Nov 04, 2018 9:36 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Dilemma - adding another cat or not?
Replies: 17
Views: 2399

Re: Dilemma - adding another cat or not?

Hi Tysiana my Harper’s a tuxedo & a female. She’s a terror & rules it over my other four. As Lilith says watch Mika & if she starts “calling” keep her under lock & key!! Apparently another trait if they’re coming into season is that they rstart getting very affectionate. When I had H...
by Mayday21
Sun Nov 04, 2018 9:24 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Coco and Chanel dilemma
Replies: 340
Views: 673700

Re: Coco and Chanel dilemma

Hi Desley uuumm with the long-term fostering are you given any practical support? I’m fostering Pebbles but I have to provide food, flea/worm treatments. The only requisite is if she needs to see a vet I have to contact the president & if she says yes I go to the charity’s approved vet. LPs also...
by Mayday21
Sun Nov 04, 2018 9:11 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Mia - a new chapter begins
Replies: 223
Views: 22555

Re: Mia - a new chapter begins

Hi 2 weeks seems a long time to wait for Hendrix’s op. They must be a very busy practice. Think Lilith’s has given good advice re Mia having access to your bedroom. Hopefully with your weather cooling both will prefer to curl up inside. Keep us posted. Btw mt TC is a tad over 7kg! Vivian
by Mayday21
Sat Nov 03, 2018 10:09 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Gandhi update: BIG THANKYOU
Replies: 5
Views: 862

Re: Gandhi update: BIG THANKYOU

Hi Issie .. great news on Gandhi. As for your comments regarding the support given on your losses I totally agree. I think this forum has very like minded people albeit we cover the globe. I’ll always remember the kind words you posted to me on Mayday’s passing & the reaction of my bf’s husband....
by Mayday21
Fri Nov 02, 2018 12:49 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy in times like this my suggestion is to go with what “feels right” ie take notice of your inner voice or gut instinct. When I’ve been in situations & have gone against my gut instinct it’s gone pear shaped. On that note it wouldn’t be friendly if the owner took offence to your enquiry. Sh...
by Mayday21
Thu Nov 01, 2018 8:49 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Samhain
Replies: 6
Views: 968

Re: Samhain

Hi Lilith, Mrs Skater & Ruth, Samhain I’ve not heard of. I too am not a fan of the trick or treat. Haloween is not part of the Oz culture but has gained momentum in the last 15yrs. I kept my doors locked. Never heard of Mischief Night. Lilith I hold on to the thought that there is another door t...
by Mayday21
Thu Nov 01, 2018 8:30 pm
Forum: Bereavement Support
Topic: 12 days in and still tormented
Replies: 7
Views: 1213

Re: 12 days in and still tormented

Hi Nicky I’ve just read your posts on losing Hendrix, please accept my condolences. I found this forum when I lost my Mayday ... my avatar. I was suffering the most incredible grief & it was the support & understanding I received from people on this site that helped me. Some of those people ...
by Mayday21
Wed Oct 24, 2018 8:30 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Andrex Cat? Loo-dicrous!
Replies: 11
Views: 1670

Re: Andrex Cat? Loo-dicrous!

I still hide my loo paper as Harper spreads it throughout the house. :lol: :lol: Vivian
by Mayday21
Sun Oct 14, 2018 9:07 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!
Replies: 53
Views: 16247

Re: Neighbours Cat - What to Do !!

Hi Andy I think it’s sweet of you to care for Paul. And reading between the lines he’s very fond of you!! I’m not impressed with the owner’s attitude. After calling in you’d think she’d have made an effort to track you down & thank you for looking after Paul. There’s the old saying ..”cats pick ...
by Mayday21
Sun Oct 14, 2018 8:52 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: It never rains, but it pours!
Replies: 11
Views: 1882

Re: It never rains, but it pours!

Lovely pics. Billy & Freddie are really checking out Bob in the cage..Freddie thinking ..”Uum I was in there a couple of weeks ago.” Has Freddie’s fur recovered a tad where he had his op? The Famous Five from Oz send meows. Vivian PS Just read your Freddie post with pic ... he really is a majest...
by Mayday21
Sat Oct 13, 2018 10:20 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Need support..I adore beloved Gandhi..BUT.
Replies: 19
Views: 3172

Re: Need support..I adore beloved Gandhi..BUT.

Hi Issi lovely to read about Gandhi & his new lease on life. Vivian