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by Kay
Mon Nov 17, 2014 1:52 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: cat going in neighbours garden
Replies: 8
Views: 7292

Re: cat going in neighbours garden

perhaps digging out an earth pit, or setting up a sand pit, in your own garden might help - offering something better than anything available in neighbours' gardens would be my chosen solution, and one which harms no cats or neighbourly sensitivities
by Kay
Sun Nov 16, 2014 11:26 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: My cat is behaving peculiarly!
Replies: 4
Views: 1532

Re: My cat is behaving peculiarly!

I agree - sounds like a bit of post-traumatic stress going on, which is not uncommon in cats when they've had a nasty fright
by Kay
Sun Nov 16, 2014 12:10 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: cat really struggling with body splint - help please!
Replies: 5
Views: 3048

Re: cat really struggling with body splint - help please!

I have no experience, but I am a bit appalled your vet has sent him home in this state - surely they should have checked at the surgery to see if he could manage - and kept him in after a major op I think all you can do overnight is to pad out the sides of the cage, turn off the lights and hope he s...
by Kay
Sat Nov 15, 2014 10:43 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Domino the stray
Replies: 42
Views: 6776

Re: Domino the stray

now that's a cat who knows a good home when he sees one

do you think Laz appreciates having a mate around?
by Kay
Sat Nov 15, 2014 7:07 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: 18yr old just been diagnosed with heart failure. What to do?
Replies: 9
Views: 8305

Re: 18yr old just been diagnosed with heart failure. What to

alas, Natalie, this is the one question none of us can answer for you, because only you know your Millie enough to judge when she has had enough - most of us have tortured ourselves with this dilemma at one time or another, and those that haven't will almost certainly have it to come the tablets are...
by Kay
Fri Nov 14, 2014 8:31 pm
Forum: Rescue & Rehoming - General
Topic: Is a stray cat ok to give to an elderly person?
Replies: 6
Views: 2237

Re: Is a stray cat ok to give to an elderly person?

my mother took on a rescue cat when she was 85, and it made a huge difference to her quality of life I assume like me you will be around to help out if necessary I think the most important thing is to find a cat which likes laps, as your mum will want, I suspect, lots of affection - a quiet older ca...
by Kay
Fri Nov 14, 2014 3:09 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Health & Behaviour survey for UK Cat Owners
Replies: 7
Views: 1903

Re: Health & Behaviour survey for UK Cat Owners

completed, Imogen - but you haven't allowed for cats with access to a catproofed garden only, which is a pity, as it would be interesting to know what effect such restriction has on behaviour compared to free-roaming cats and indoor only also with cats allowed free access by day but shut in at night...
by Kay
Wed Nov 12, 2014 10:27 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Domino the stray
Replies: 42
Views: 6776

Re: Domino the stray

perhaps he was in a section of the surgery reserved for entire toms, Mark, where they all sprayed each other - he might have been 'done' before you expected because today was de-nutting day :lol:
by Kay
Wed Nov 12, 2014 10:25 pm
Forum: LOST Cats
Topic: Missing Cat - Fair Oak, Eastleigh, Hampshire
Replies: 15
Views: 5645

Re: Missing Cat - Fair Oak, Eastleigh, Hampshire

try a poster in your front window where refuse collectors, posties, couriers etc will see it
by Kay
Wed Nov 12, 2014 10:23 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: messing in the house!
Replies: 8
Views: 1735

Re: messing in the house!

I don't think this is the behaviour of a lazy cat - it sounds much more like a cat which does not have proper control of her bladder, and I do feel some investigations are needed
by Kay
Wed Nov 12, 2014 12:20 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Domino the stray
Replies: 42
Views: 6776

Re: Domino the stray

I've never understood that rule either, Mark - Trigger used to bring up bile 4 days a week around 6am and there was never a trace of food present, and that was when I was leaving food down when I went to bed
by Kay
Mon Nov 10, 2014 11:27 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: no sitter suitable
Replies: 10
Views: 2675

Re: no sitter suitable

Personally I have no problem leaving mine for one night with feeders set to open at meal times, and an extra couple of litter trays - even in the winter, when my only source of heating, a multi-fuel stove, goes out after 16 or so hours, because I leave a thick duvet on my bed folded over so they can...
by Kay
Fri Nov 07, 2014 10:11 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Losing weight
Replies: 2
Views: 844

Re: Losing weight

has he had comprehensive blood tests, or only had his thyroid levels tested? I really think only a vet can help you with this weight loss - there must be something going on if he is eating enough - if you think he is losing weight because he isn't eating enough, then maybe he has problems with his m...
by Kay
Thu Nov 06, 2014 9:21 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: How often should a cat poo?
Replies: 3
Views: 1193

Re: How often should a cat poo?

one of mine only goes every other day - she eats a 90% dry diet, which I suspect makes them poo less frequently
by Kay
Thu Nov 06, 2014 10:29 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: How to get cat to start staying in again...
Replies: 2
Views: 717

Re: How to get cat to start staying in again...

if you are lucky, you will find that Albie's behaviour was as much to do with having his free access to the outside curtailed as the arrival of Beau, especially if he had been coming and going without hinderence for 3 years - refusing to come indoors might have been because he feared being locked in...
by Kay
Wed Nov 05, 2014 10:08 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: My older cat won't accept a rescue kitten
Replies: 3
Views: 814

Re: My older cat won't accept a rescue kitten

if Leema doesn't retaliate, and Bella doesn't actually hurt her, you're in territory quite familiar to a lot of us - my Tiffany still regularly hisses and swipes at Tosker, and he's been here 4 years - but he doesn't take any notice, and they rub along together well enough engaging them both in play...
by Kay
Tue Nov 04, 2014 9:49 pm
Forum: Rescue & Rehoming - General
Topic: Help needed for my adopted cat. Scared of lodger.
Replies: 17
Views: 5399

Re: Help needed for my adopted cat. Scared of lodger.

welcome to the world of cat worship, MG it does look as if your lodger being male could be the problem, but one she should get over given time on her part, and patience on yours - and of course you shouldn't give up on her and get a kitten - she chose you and this is just a little setback I would ke...
by Kay
Tue Nov 04, 2014 11:00 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Moving home/long term cattery
Replies: 8
Views: 7057

Re: Moving home/long term cattery

I think they would hate the upheaval more than staying where they are, if you could ask them - cats hate change, and by leaving them in the cattery you can move them into the new house when the dust has settled, and they will find familiar people and furniture waiting for them as long as you can tru...
by Kay
Mon Nov 03, 2014 10:47 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Neighbour's free roaming ex- stray
Replies: 16
Views: 4381

Re: Neighbour's free roaming ex- stray

it's easy to see why you couldn't ignore him - he's lovely

for every neglectful owner there is a big-hearted cat lover like you - I hope he rewards you with many years of love and (hopefully) good behaviour
by Kay
Sun Nov 02, 2014 2:48 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Baxter wants out!
Replies: 6
Views: 1193

Re: Baxter wants out!

have you tried putting him back out in the outdoor pen for at least part of the day/night? being a bit closer to the big outdoors might be enough to settle him a bit, at least until his vaccinations are complete
by Kay
Sun Nov 02, 2014 10:36 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Heart broken
Replies: 7
Views: 2340

Re: Heart broken

I am so sorry, Hannah - weeks of worrying about him, and hoping he would be found, and then finding out he had died will of course have played havoc with your emotions if only our care for them would keep them by our sides for ever - but sadly that can never be - you clearly did your very best for J...
by Kay
Sun Nov 02, 2014 10:28 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: My 10 week year old kitten keeps weeing behind the tv!
Replies: 16
Views: 5256

Re: My 10 week year old kitten keeps weeing behind the tv!

Tara, I think if you find yourself getting angry with a kitten for inappropriate toileting habits, when it has only been going on a short while, it may be that kitten-owning is not for you you don't say anything about being really fond of him, and if you're not, then it would be kinder to find anoth...
by Kay
Sat Nov 01, 2014 8:08 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Question about Corona Virus please advise!
Replies: 3
Views: 1723

Re: Question about Corona Virus please advise!

FIP is a mutation of the Corona virus, which is by no means inevitable

have a look at this site - Dr Addie is a leading expert on feline diseases

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by Kay
Sat Nov 01, 2014 1:32 pm
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: Leaving my cat when I go on holiday
Replies: 1
Views: 684

Re: Leaving my cat when I go on holiday

I think you need to look to the future here, and try to find a solution which can be used for future trips away, not just this one we all have different views on this conundrum - personally I'd say the ideal is to have someone come and live in while you're away, if you know someone reliable - I had ...
by Kay
Fri Oct 31, 2014 8:20 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Cat terminally ill - what do we ask the vet?
Replies: 29
Views: 6547

Re: Cat terminally ill - what do we ask the vet?

I'm so sorry to hear Cleo has had to leave you - my Trigger's passing is still very raw with me, so I do so understand how you feel if only they could live as long as we do - but they don't, and all we can do is look after them and love them, and let them go peacefully when we must I hope you can gi...
by Kay
Thu Oct 30, 2014 9:54 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Cat terminally ill - what do we ask the vet?
Replies: 29
Views: 6547

Re: Cat terminally ill - what do we ask the vet?

my Trigger went on his final journey last Friday - the vet came to my house, which meant I didn't have to force him into a carrier, which he hated he was in his bed in the cat tree, and wasn't sedated - she put a catheter into a vein in his front leg, after clipping the fur (which you might want to ...
by Kay
Thu Oct 30, 2014 10:36 am
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy and Congestive Heart Failure
Replies: 48
Views: 16984

Re: Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy and Congestive Heart Failure

I'm so very pleased for you Sarie

Henry's story shows just what a difference being able to access expert opinion can make - and the importance of insurance for those who could not afford it
by Kay
Mon Oct 27, 2014 10:58 am
Forum: General Cat Chatting!
Topic: 8 weekly kitten v cat flap!
Replies: 13
Views: 3943

Re: 8 weekly kitten v cat flap!

great update - neither Molly nor Kevin feel threatened by each other, with the bars of the crate between them, and can build a relationship at their own pace she may well always give him the odd hiss and cuff though - my Tiffany has been disciplining Tosker for more than 4 years now, and shows no si...
by Kay
Mon Oct 27, 2014 10:54 am
Forum: HOMES NEEDED
Topic: I rescued this starving stray but can't keep him
Replies: 17
Views: 5407

Re: I rescued this starving stray but can't keep him

I think you will find that once your regular absences are part of his routine he will cope fine with them, as he will have learnt that you always return but you could always look around for a regular cat sitter for him - do you know anyone totally trustworthy and reliable who would welcome the chanc...
by Kay
Sun Oct 26, 2014 10:18 pm
Forum: Health and Behaviour Queries, Help and Advice
Topic: Pain meds after spaying?
Replies: 6
Views: 3923

Re: Pain meds after spaying?

there are some indications that Metacam when injected can, very rarely, cause sudden kidney damage, whereas the oral drops are safer, so there could be some logic to your vets' actions the Metacam has a long shelf life anyway after opening, so you might find it useful to have a supply for temporary ...