
Last week my partner picked up our 9 year old tuxedo cat. She likes to watch me do the bins in the back garden

I've recently lost my job and as we claimed housing benefit we got Mia a quick appointment to the PDSA. Two years ago (at 7) she got spade after a severe infection, poor little mite.
The VET felt all over her and listened to her lungs and weighed her etc. Then when she said "Let's pop her back in her box and have a little chat"...I though "Oh no!! Not THE conversation!".
The VET explained that Cat tumours are very aggressive and 90% of them are cancerous. She said it like she was talking about a common cold. It shocked my partner so much she nearly fainted. She hasn't taken it well at all because we don't know what to do.
I asked the VET if it was definitely malignant etc and she kept repeating that 90% of cases are aggressive.
What I wanted to ask you guys is should she be so certain without a Biopsy? Could it be anything else?
She said her lungs were healthy but said they wouldn't operate if little Mia had cancer that had spread.
She also said that if they operated it will come back!! So she doesn't really like doing it!! The option was cat steroids to prolong her life as long as possible.
We went into the VETS expecting that it may be a CYST or something, and we left with some anti-inflammatory tablets and a death sentence for our Mia who we just love so much.
Any advice/experience would be most welcome. We're drowning in decisions and we have another appointment on Thursday...
Thanks guys, on behalf of Mia !! x