Neighbour feeding my cat
Posted: Wed Sep 25, 2019 10:14 am
Hi There
i have a cat who was feral when I found him and it has taken me 3 years to settle him here and to bond with him. For the last month or so he has been out for 24-36 hours at a time and not responded to my shouting for him. I have been worried sick and spent many nights wandering around the local streets trying to find him. At 1am this morning I shouted for him and saw a neighbour across the road surreptitiously opening her front door and out he popped. When I tried to get him to come into his home he just keeps going back over the road and sitting outside the other house. when I tried to gently pet him and nudge him in the right direction he attacked me and when I do get him in he is wide eyed and desperate to get back out after 5 minutes..it’s like he doesn’t recognise this as his home and I feel that all the work I put into domesticating him has been undone. He wouldn’t even be touched when I first got him and was terribly aggressive to the point even the vet was wary of him!
He has a microchip catflap so isn’t being locked outside and I’m not working so I’m in pretty much all day....I don’t want to come across badly to my new neighbours as I’ve not met her yet..
I’ve written a note explaining all of this but not sure whether I should put it through her door?
Any options /advice greatly appreciated
i have a cat who was feral when I found him and it has taken me 3 years to settle him here and to bond with him. For the last month or so he has been out for 24-36 hours at a time and not responded to my shouting for him. I have been worried sick and spent many nights wandering around the local streets trying to find him. At 1am this morning I shouted for him and saw a neighbour across the road surreptitiously opening her front door and out he popped. When I tried to get him to come into his home he just keeps going back over the road and sitting outside the other house. when I tried to gently pet him and nudge him in the right direction he attacked me and when I do get him in he is wide eyed and desperate to get back out after 5 minutes..it’s like he doesn’t recognise this as his home and I feel that all the work I put into domesticating him has been undone. He wouldn’t even be touched when I first got him and was terribly aggressive to the point even the vet was wary of him!
He has a microchip catflap so isn’t being locked outside and I’m not working so I’m in pretty much all day....I don’t want to come across badly to my new neighbours as I’ve not met her yet..
I’ve written a note explaining all of this but not sure whether I should put it through her door?
Any options /advice greatly appreciated