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Progress! Kittens finally accepting us :)
Posted: Tue Nov 12, 2019 10:19 pm
by exlibris
Anyone who has seen my posts recently will know how frustrated we've been with our new kittens. We are experienced cat owners (we thought!) and our last cats we had from kitten to elderly, and my partner has 42 years of living with cats. This pair just kept running away from us, totally happy to play distance games with us (they are addicted to string), clearly not frightened of us (no hissing or hiding), just no stroking or picking up. We of course gave them time to adjust, but they were still running away.
Well, it's taken 2 months, but Winston is currently on my lap having his belly rubbed

Whisper will come and demand fusses when I wake up

They still flee if they think they're going to be picked up (I swear they have a sixth sense), but otherwise good. The reason I am writing this is up until the last few days they would accept attention from me, but not my partner. But now they are actively asking for fusses from him! I am so happy I just had to share

Re: Progress! Kittens finally accepting us :)
Posted: Wed Nov 13, 2019 12:51 pm
by Ruth B
It doesn't matter how many cats you have had, there always comes along one (or two) that make you realise you still have a lot to learn about them, it's one of the joys of having cats.
I'm really glad to hear that progress is being made, even if it is at their pace. I must admit, much as I love Tiggy and Saturn when they come demanding attention, cuddles or knee time, the few times when Freyja has come to sit or even just stand on my knee feels so rewarding. Cats like these make even the most basic of things something special, and they let us know that we are privileged that they choose to share a house with us.
Re: Progress! Kittens finally accepting us :)
Posted: Wed Nov 13, 2019 1:30 pm
by booktigger
Aww, that is brilliant news, I’m glad your hard work is paying off.
Re: Progress! Kittens finally accepting us :)
Posted: Wed Nov 13, 2019 6:48 pm
by Mollycat
Ruth B wrote: ↑Wed Nov 13, 2019 12:51 pm
It doesn't matter how many cats you have had, there always comes along one (or two) that make you realise you still have a lot to learn about them, it's one of the joys of having cats.
Cats like these make even the most basic of things something special, and they let us know that we are privileged that they choose to share a house with us.
Couldn't agree more!
Great news.