Help me overcome a loss
Posted: Mon Apr 13, 2020 7:47 am
Hello Cat Chat,
I made an account today just so I can ask for help and some advice, I will try to make the story shorter and I will really appreciate it if you can help me somehow.
Approx. 1 year ago I adopted 2 baby kittens from 2 different locations (left on the street), I took them as babies I fed them with pacifier, the interesting thing is they were few months different in age found on different location but they were almost the same like 2 brothers. They loved each other, played ate together, went to the WC together slept together they did EVERYTHING together.
This Saturday a disaster happened. The younger of the two fell from a 7th floor building, I instantly went down found him maybe 5 meters away from the crash site coughing blood with the one eye half out and begging for help. I did not moved him in any way I called a vet right away but after maybe 5 - 7 minutes he died. He just stood up one last time and fell and died. Now I am extremely sad with questions like why I did not saw he was on the window, why I did not close the window, could I have given him first aid down there so he could live a little more while I took him to the vet? The other cat is doing nothing now.... rarely eats just making circles around the whole apartment. I need you to help me overcome this somehow I need someone to listen me
I love all animals equally but this cat was something different. You will never believe it but he purred 24/7 nonstop and he was like a dog always following you always getting on you to pet him which makes me even more sad. HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE THIS, HE WAS JUST SUCH A GOOD SOUL.....
I made an account today just so I can ask for help and some advice, I will try to make the story shorter and I will really appreciate it if you can help me somehow.
Approx. 1 year ago I adopted 2 baby kittens from 2 different locations (left on the street), I took them as babies I fed them with pacifier, the interesting thing is they were few months different in age found on different location but they were almost the same like 2 brothers. They loved each other, played ate together, went to the WC together slept together they did EVERYTHING together.
This Saturday a disaster happened. The younger of the two fell from a 7th floor building, I instantly went down found him maybe 5 meters away from the crash site coughing blood with the one eye half out and begging for help. I did not moved him in any way I called a vet right away but after maybe 5 - 7 minutes he died. He just stood up one last time and fell and died. Now I am extremely sad with questions like why I did not saw he was on the window, why I did not close the window, could I have given him first aid down there so he could live a little more while I took him to the vet? The other cat is doing nothing now.... rarely eats just making circles around the whole apartment. I need you to help me overcome this somehow I need someone to listen me
I love all animals equally but this cat was something different. You will never believe it but he purred 24/7 nonstop and he was like a dog always following you always getting on you to pet him which makes me even more sad. HE DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO DESERVE THIS, HE WAS JUST SUCH A GOOD SOUL.....