Looking to socialise with someone's kittens
Posted: Sun Feb 16, 2020 12:37 pm
Hi everyone! I've just joined, so my apologies if I'm posting in the wrong place.
I'm here for what I suspect is an odd reason. I've been a cat-lover all my life and am very experienced with cats, but my husband hasn't had a pet. He has always open to having one, but we weren't very settled (renting, changing jobs) and having not really had a pet before the whole concept was a bit foreign to him so he was keen, but also a little apprehensive.
But now he and his best friend (our neighbour) have both decided that they really want to get a pet (or pets). We live in flats, so cats seem to be a good choice (much to my excitement!). The time seems right now because we're generally feeling quite established and settled in our own property, plus we have good relationships with several neighbours and have become their pet-sitters when they are away. Having said that, the time we would be looking to get these kittens would be in a few months time, not immediately (for logistical reasons).
Our other neighbours' dog had puppies recently, and after holding them just twice my husband completely melted and saw for himself that pets aren't hyper and weird 100% of the time and they have their own personalities, and that bonding and sharing one's life with a pet is beautiful. He's been watching videos of kittens and cats and getting a bit sooky (bless!). All good progression as far as I'm concerned.
Now here's the odd bit: my husband has never personally met a kitten so I want him to get the experience of interacting with kittens, like he did with the puppies. Just a few visits so that the idea of getting a kitten isn't something just theoretical, he can actually experience playing and bonding with a kitten. His best friend is already totally sold (he's addicted to cat videos now, haha). But they want to at least have watched and handled kittens a few times before actually getting one.
I'm not sure how to go about this though. Would a breeder mind us playing with their kittens if we not intending to buy just yet? Do any animal rescues allow you to meet kittens? I would really love some ideas.
I'm here for what I suspect is an odd reason. I've been a cat-lover all my life and am very experienced with cats, but my husband hasn't had a pet. He has always open to having one, but we weren't very settled (renting, changing jobs) and having not really had a pet before the whole concept was a bit foreign to him so he was keen, but also a little apprehensive.
But now he and his best friend (our neighbour) have both decided that they really want to get a pet (or pets). We live in flats, so cats seem to be a good choice (much to my excitement!). The time seems right now because we're generally feeling quite established and settled in our own property, plus we have good relationships with several neighbours and have become their pet-sitters when they are away. Having said that, the time we would be looking to get these kittens would be in a few months time, not immediately (for logistical reasons).
Our other neighbours' dog had puppies recently, and after holding them just twice my husband completely melted and saw for himself that pets aren't hyper and weird 100% of the time and they have their own personalities, and that bonding and sharing one's life with a pet is beautiful. He's been watching videos of kittens and cats and getting a bit sooky (bless!). All good progression as far as I'm concerned.
Now here's the odd bit: my husband has never personally met a kitten so I want him to get the experience of interacting with kittens, like he did with the puppies. Just a few visits so that the idea of getting a kitten isn't something just theoretical, he can actually experience playing and bonding with a kitten. His best friend is already totally sold (he's addicted to cat videos now, haha). But they want to at least have watched and handled kittens a few times before actually getting one.
I'm not sure how to go about this though. Would a breeder mind us playing with their kittens if we not intending to buy just yet? Do any animal rescues allow you to meet kittens? I would really love some ideas.