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I was devastated when my adored Blake had to be pts in May 2014. He was 18 and had chronic kidney disease. My son went to uni, so it had been just Blake and me for ten years. I decided to adopt or foster an older cat when the time was right. In September 2015 Rufus Tuftypaws came into my life. His elderly lady owner (who called him 'Fluffy'! :? :? :roll: ) had died. I saw a picture of him and fell in love. I was told he was very much an indoor cat, and liked to sit on the window sills. Well, he settled in without any problems. Loves being groomed, prefers a cuddle to a treat, bless him.
Last month I had my carpets replaced, and the fitters found a little dead mouse behind a book shelf. The great wusses just stood there, wouldn't touch it! So I disposed of the poor little thing (I don't mind mice - they're cute little field mice and I try to rescue them when I can). And yesterday Rufus had another little mouse. That too hid behind the book case. I left the back door wide open all night and I hope it had the sense to escape. So much for Rufus being 'very much an indoor cat'! There was no cat flap at the old lady's house, so he simply didn't get the opportunity to go out and hunt. I'm actually quite pleased he can exercise his natural instinct now. He's still quite young - about five. So if you adopt an older cat don't assume it's set in its ways. :) I do wonder if catching a mouse and putting it at the bottom of the garden simply prolongs the agony. I used to do it when Blake still hunted, but sometimes he'd come in with- probably- the same mouse twenty minutes later...
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Our lovely Lazarus (we lost him to a liver tumour last year) was also adopted as an older (12 or 13) cat and was also previously called Fluffy!!! :D - and his favourite spot was....
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Lol did you know 'Fluffy' is one of the most popular names for a...snake? :shock:

My own royal python ISN'T called that, I might add, he's 'Shahi'. Which is Urdu/Hindi for 'royal' so still a bit obvious lol.

I think Rufus and Lazarus got off lightly actually; I had a middleaged feral tom move in with me; he had been totally wild and hostile but he was hungry and cupboard-love suddenly became an affection addiction too - with everyone he met. One afternoon a neighbour's visitor spotted Finn, as I called him (he moved in around St Patrick's day and I named him after Finn McCool the Irish hero) and thought he might be a cat she'd had, who had wandered off. 'He's just like our Ronnie!'

Oh. Right. Ronnie. Ronnie? RONNIE?????

No wonder he left home.

Apologies to any Ronnies out there but somehow the name doesn't strike me as well, feline...

It says football, lager. Comedians. Not that there's anything wrong with lager :D

Mind you, I should talk. My Mouse got the nickname as a kitten and just never outgrew it.

Rufus is a gorgeous name for a gorgeous cat - I do think names are important. And yes, an older cat isn't necessarily set in its ways; they're adaptable in the most surprising ways - part of the charm of cats, their 'infinite variety' :)
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Funny you mention a cat called Mouse. There was a missing 21 year old cat on our local lost & found Facebook group last week (who was found in the end :D ) I mentioned it to Sarah (Camdengirl) and she said the parents of her ex had a cat named Mouse.
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We used to call our Thomas, Tommy- mouse (Tom-mouse) :roll:

My sister took in a cat whose original name was Elvis. She said 'if you think I'm shouting 'Elvis' From the doorstep every night, think again.' She called him 'Yowlee' (because he was) :lol:

Lilith - 'Fluffy' for a snake? :lol: :lol:

catslave - we have a 'mouse bucket' that we keep in the caravan for 'rescues'. It allows them to get their breath back and give the cats chance to forget it. Mice, shrews and lizards have all spent time in the mouse bucket.
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Hi Mark, it's amazing how many cats are called 'Mouse'. In my Mouse's case the name just 'came' the first time I saw her, a scruffy little half-grown thing with short bandy legs but a perfect Siamese head...her mother Tess, who I was feeding along with Emily, another feral, had brought her to the cellar window (the 'drop-in' centre) and there was this little black face with big ears and half a white moustache, peering in at me. 'Hullo, Mouse,' I said, and that was that. A couple of members on here have also got 'a Mouse in the house.' :D

Lol bobbys girl, not very dignified for the snakes is it? Other top names for pythons are 'Monty' and 'Brian' (of course.) I once bought a Brian secondhand, but renamed him 'Shiva'. I also heard of a carpet python called 'Magic' and a boa called 'Feather'. :) I did have a gorgeous gopher snake; she arrived as a hatchling in a tiny plastic box and the first thing she did was strike at me before I'd even opened the box (these snakes can put on a defence display but are really as soppy as anything if you handle them and take no notice.) I named her 'Ziska' after a melodramatic Victorian novel of the same name - 'the problem of a wicked soul'. She grew to 7' and you'd wrestle with her, hissing and tail-rattling, for about 5 minutes - then she'd climb into your sweater and go to sleep.

Ooops sorry for rambling on off-topic :D
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Off topic or not, that's the joy of sharing your life with any animal.

I forgot, I have a friend who named her Springer Spaniel, Gerri. :lol:
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Lol! :lol:

On one of the forums I came across a royal python called...Shirley Valentine...If there is a more unlikely name for a snake I've yet to see it...

Lol that Ziska once did live up to her name. She climbed into my t-shirt as usual but this time I felt a sharp tweak of pain in the errm chest area. Thought one of her coils had trapped some loose skin and forgot it until I was in the bath, when I glanced down at myself and saw a ...snakebite. :shock:

I felt like Cleopatra with the asp in her bosom :oops: :lol:
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Thanks for your stories :D but Lilith, snakes???... I have such a snake phobia that if I see a picture of a snake I can't even touch the paper it's printed on. If a 5 inch snake even LOOKES at me I think I'd have a heart attack! Mice now I don't mind. My best friend once spent three hours stood on a kitchen chair only to find that the mouse had chewed through the washing machine cable and electrocuted itself - she'd wondered why the machine had stopped 2 and a half hours previously...
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It's craneflies with me (a childhood thing).Still HATE the little beggers - and their root-munching grubs. :x

Still, my Bob is my hero. He once launched himself off the back of the sofa and caught a cranefly in mid air - then let Gracie eat it! :shock: :roll:
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Ohhh noooo, Catslave, poor mouse! (I nearly said, that's shocking...) Not much fun for your phobic friend either.

Snake phobia's very common. I'm not sociable and rarely have callers, but if anyone comes to the house such as workmen, I check with them beforehand as it's a genuinely disabling and distressing condition, as you will know. I used to have 14 snakes but had to part with all but one because of what I understand now to be ME (much better now) and you can imagine some poor chap walking into my house if he was phobic...horror! Apparently most people are supposed to be phobic about one or more of three things - cats, snakes and spiders. I like all three but then (as I've often been told) I'm weird :D

Ughh bobbys girl I know what you mean about craneflies though. I can deal with them, even pick them up, but I'd rather not. Why do the damn things zoom about with their revolting legs dangling at eye level? And aim straight for your forehead? I had an intrepid Siamese who was very good at catching them though. Trouble was, she'd put them carefully down on the floor to admire them and they'd fly straight back up to the ceiling! Until they got their bearings and divebombed my forehead again...

As for their disgusting leatherjacket grubs, yes, bad as slugs...hey. let's be glad slugs can't fly...

Can you imagine them, flubbering stickily around the room on a hot summer's night or even a cold summer's night, and going hissssss on the lightbulb? :o :shock:
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Craneflies, leatherjackets, slugs... yikes! Once lived in an old cottage with a cat who'd catch and eat the spiders in the bath, crunch crunch, with the legs sticking out of the side of his mouth... not so nice either! Maybe we ought to abandon this thread now before one of us barfs?!
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Oh no...it's just getting to be fun lol!

I too lived in a rural cottage and one evening I was on the phone when there were scrabbling sounds in the ceiling frieze just above me and THE BIGGEST SPIDER IN THE WORLD fell on top of me. He wasn't best pleased. I had to ring off because he kept running in circles round me, glaring at me. I mean, you could have saddled him up and won the Grand National on him...even I fetched the card and (pint) glass (though a whip and a chair might have been better) and put him outside, whereupon another Siamese protested.

Pity to throw that out, she said, and came running back into the house with, as you say, legs waving out of her mouth. I closed the door before she could get in and the legs got a bit too much for even her, because she dropped him and he escaped. The last I saw of him was a circle of cats round my Belfast sink planter but he was a cool spides and didn't come out.

Oh and there was the time I was washing up and felt a tickle in my rubber glove and a very large angry spider marched up my arm. 'Getting a bit hot in there!'

But I won't gross you out :lol:
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Honestly you two! I nearly choked on my cuppa! :roll: :lol: Flying slugs? :shock: :lol: :lol: :lol:

How did we get so far from - adopting an older cat? :?
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My fault I fear, chatting about snakes :oops:

I tell you what I really really murderously hate (though as a good Pagan - or anyone of any religion or who just has a respect for life - I shouldn't hate any living creature) and that's those great big bluebottle flies...uugggghhh, make my skin crawl, I'm never happy till they're gone or dead :evil:

Mind you there are a lot of dogs round here and not everyone cleans up their yard or even the pavement; bins are emptied once a fortnight and left overflowing...enough said...hate flies worse than fleas, especially when something the size of a Boeing tries to nick my fish and chips! :evil:

But I love moths - that's if I get to the moth before the cat does ... :shock:
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When I lived in a city centre flat, I didn't get much bother from flies. Now I have a house with a garden, and a lot of green space at the back, I see a lot more. One result of this is that I've invested in microchip-reading cat feeders, that cover the food when the cat moves away. Before I did that, in summer it seemed to be no time at all before fly eggs appeared on the food.
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Lilith you do make me laugh :lol: :lol: :lol:
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I really did miss Lilith's stories when she was away! :D

Because I already had a houseful of oldies when I started adopting, and so didn't want to foist a youngster on them, I have always adopted older cats, and never regretted that decision.

And you're right - just because they behaved a certain way in their old home doesn't necessarily mean they will be the same in yours!
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Aww thanks Catslave and Crewella :oops: :D

Hey I thought the 'Back Door Drama' cartoon was brilliant, Catslave and I've always loved your stories, Crewella. I'll never forget Greebo :)
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